You know what you do with bluffs, right?
You call them.
You should take up the offer (... nominally, at least). And then you should use it to tease the living *fuck* out of her.
• Comment randomly on women you see together (hm, mb I should use my "hall pass" with her?)
• Even better, involve HER in the discussion ahah. ("Y'know, I just can't rlly decide. Can you help me pick out a woman?" <3
Or, best of all, invite her to do the legwork for ya -- and frame it as for HER benefit.
"So yeah, that woman, she's pretty hot. But, she needs to know this would just be a play thing, and we all know how much it would sound like bullshit if I just roll up there like, 'yh ma gurl's fine with me playin' around a bit'. So bby... how about you break that ice? Tell her it's ma birthday!"
Hehe.
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And oh, the fun times you could have flipping this dynamic around on HER, should you ever "catch" her in any sort of mild flirtation with some cute boy.
Forget it being a trap. Why would you want to continue a relationship with somebody who says it's okay? Plus you clear just said that she is the jealous type, and you must like jealous girls then. I wouldn't stick around for somebody like her. Plus, anybody who tells you that, obviously wants to break up with you. Yes, it's a trap. But now don't be surprised if you never took it and she cheats on you. Don't stay in a relationship like this. Nothing but drama will come out of it.
Unless you both want a true open relationship, it's probably a trap. Even if your girlfriend thinks she's okay with you using the pass, she may feel differently if you actually use it. In a healthy relationship, you shouldn't need a hall pass, anyway. Ask her why she wants to give you the pass, and see if you can get to the bottom of the problem.
That is a total trap. If she's the jealous type, knowing you went through with it just reaffirms to her that she isn't important to you enough for you to not want to just fuck around. She'll use it as an excuse to break up with you.
I haven't seen the movie but I can guess what its about
I'm guessing the plot is
girl offers guy hall pass to hook up with girls for x amount of time and at the end of it he realizes he only wants her. How romantic.
She did offer it, but she's the jealous type. But first are you SURE she wasn't joking. She wasn't saying it sarcastically. If she was and you act on that you can toast your relationship goodbye.
If it was serious it could be a test. It sounds like a test. If you value this relationship I would not do this.
There's a curb your enthusiasm (great show) where Cheryl offers Larry David one free hookup (as a tenth anniversary gift). But that's a. fiction b. less insecurity. And even so I'm not sure how well that works out.
I would not act on it unless you want an excuse to be with somebody else- in which case forget hall pass, forget break just break up
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u YOU BET YOUR ASS it's a trap!!!
Lmfao it's a trap. Especially if she's the jealous type. If you take the offer you'll be screwed because she'll think that she's not enough for you and you get off on looking at other women and she'll leave you! Or worse hang it on your head till whenever.
Probably what she wants is for you to both end up choosing not to sleep with other people and renew your commitment to each other like what happened in the movie.
That's what I would want but I'd never give my boyfriend a hall pass to begin with.
In your case it sounds like a trap.
Depending on the girl it isn't always: my girlfriend gave me a pass to hook up with girls while I was away in Europe for a while (obviously I did so a lot and it was the bomb) and when I got back it was totally fine.
But yeah, in your case, it's a trap man.
It's a trap. But if you are thinking about it, it means you really don't care about her and the break up she will surely follow with after the week is over will be for the best anyway.
No woman who is happy in her relation wants their guy to pick another female. What she wants is you to pick her while you are given the choice of anyone.
If anyone is the relationship offers a hall pass then that means they want to fuck someone else. Or they already have or they just want to use it against you to fuck someone else. It's still a trap.
she is playing mind games with you and you are no mind reader. if you dont want to play teenage games, dont be concerned that if its a ''trap'' she told you to go look for other women, and you are free to do so as she said. so go, have fun. See how she reacts
If you take it she's gonna understand that as a sign that her and your relationship is not enough for you, so don't. Just tell her she's all you need or break up with her already.
The question here isn't if it is a trap or not
The question here is do you want to take it?
And if so, why would you?
i don't know if it's a trap. she could fully intend on letting you have it, but hall passes rarely work out as a benefit to a relationship
It's most certainly a trap. Choose your next move wisely.
She is totally trying to see how you react and make her decision based on your actions... Be carful!
Of course it's a trap. Why would you want to do it anyway?
Nuff said
Already the fact that you realized that it might be a trap is what she intended you to think like. At least she wants you to come to the point where you realize that she's the one and only for you.
It means she's already done it with someone else...
Definitely a trap. Jealous types don't offer that shit!!!
If a girl is that insecure I wouldn't date her to be honest.
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