"I won't stop because I don't see how its a bad thing."
That, right there, is the problem.
Even if you don't see it as disrespectful, he clearly does. You saying that you won't stop tells me that you don't care about how it feels, to him. That IS disrespectful.
He is taking the word "bro" to suggest that you treat him just like any other friend. It tells him that you don't see your relationship as different than any other, even though his is your boyfriend.
That, coupled with the fact that you don't care enough about how it makes him feel to even consider stopping, kind of suggests that he is right. You don't seem to care that much about the relationship.
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It doesn't matter if it's for a petty reason, it bothers him.
That should be enough for you to care to stop.
I'm sure there will be times when you have what he considers to be 'irrational' things that you want him to do, and you will expect him to respect you enough to do them. It's the same thing.
I can see how it can be dsrespectuful and how he did not think about it too much or it did not bother him in the beginning because he thought it was whatever. But now that you are in a relationship and he doesn't like it because it's true bro is like you are treating him as a friend and not a boyfriend. I think if he asked you to not call him that you should respect it. What if he called you something you did not like wouldn't you want him to stop calling you that? Put yourself in his shoes...
Because calling him that is like you guys are just friends and which is making him mad. Shit if my man called me that I would be mad to,
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I honestly with him, I wouldn't like it.
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