Would you make this guy your girlfriend (Physical attraction aspect)?

[Anonymous]

Tharciane Silva - Trans female

YES

NO

[Anonymous]

Pre op no way post op I don't know but id still find it strange actually dating them.
A guy I know recently announced he was trans and before that someone I from my high school year did on facebook and I can accept that and it's a brave thing for them to do and good that pepole can be who they feel they are but I can't really get my head around the whole thing just accept that there doing that and get on with life.

[clampfan101]

I'm still debating on wether or not having a relationship with a transgender would be okay. I haven't found anything in the Bible that strongly suggests one or the other...
If she was born female, I certainly wouldn't turn her down if I liked her personality. She's very pretty. (I'm much more into redheads, though. lol)

[jodie01]

SHE is not a guy. You literally said she is a trans female so why act ignorant?

[MenREvil]

They're not ignorant they're just bigoted.

[CodyM4282]

Because some people aren't OK with dating trans people there are issues that can come along with it number one though is they can't have kids and at the end of the day its a sexual preference just like everything else

[jodie01]

That has nothing to do with what I said.

[CodyM4282]

Was replying to MenREvil jodie

[Psychlopic]

That's a she, not a him. Personally, I don't think of be quite comfortable with dating a Trans-female person, but I do wish her the best of luck in finding someone who can

[MenREvil]

Why wouldn't you feel comfortable? If you are not gay then it's a totally bigoted point of view from your part.

[Psychlopic]

While I respect her choices and her transition, personally it's not something I find attractive in an intimate and sexual setting. I would have nothing against knowing her or being friends with her, but it would be different if we were in a relationship. It's simply a choice of taste on my end, and not a criticism of who she is.
She can be whoever she wants, and date whoever she wants, and the same goes for me.

[MenREvil]

Sorry but if you would not want to date her just because she's trans then that's completely discriminatory.

[Psychlopic]

Being dateable isn't a right. It's not discrimination to not find someone attractive. I won't date smokers, or people who drink excessively, or are too overweight, or people I don't find physically attractive, etc. It's that discriminatory too?

Am I required as a straight male required to find every single woman attractive? Because if I don't, I'm a bigot who discriminates? Do you not have preferences when it comes to partners? How is that different to girls not finding me physically attractive?

Again, I could easily have become friends with her, and would support and help her in her endeavors.

[MenREvil]

The problem is not that you have preferences but the fact that you would be totally open to dating her if she was a biological woman. And that is not a preference you have from woman to woman, it is a preference you have from woman to trans woman. That's why you're a bigot.

[Rafa_rb]

A lot of men found find breast implants much less attractive than natural breasts. And that is just a minor change in a woman's body. And that is usually regarded an acceptable opinion.

Why is it so crazy that a man can't be turned on by an artificial vagina?

No one is being a big got here. People are free to change their bodies and I will treat everyone with the same respect. But I don't think it's reasonable for someone to call someone a biggot because they are not in control of their sexual attractions.

[CodyM4282]

How is it discrimination to like who you like and don't who you don't or should we be forcing gay people to date the other gender even though that's not what they like? See doesn't work does it a preference is a prefrence

[MenREvil]

It is not a preference, it's discrimination. If someone sees a photo of a trans woman and thinks she is attractive until they know she is trans that is discriminatory, period.

[CodyM4282]

Not at all discrimination is NOT a thing in the dating world only the political and socirtaly sense if you can't open your eyes to that I'm not gonna argue about it

[MenREvil]

I don't need to argue with bigots like you.

[CodyM4282]

Lol see I love the buzzwords ^_^ however I don't personally care if the person I'm dating is trans or not however I don't ASSUME that everybody NEEDS to think the same way as me or have the same PREFERENCES as I do

[Rafa_rb]

Being attracted to someone is not just a visual thing, sorry.

[MenREvil]

Please respect her pronouns. It's wrong to call her a guy and I think you did that on purpose.

[Prime_Sol]

No. That's gay. And I'm not gay.

Also, he can't be a girl friend give he's a guy. That doesn't make sense.

[the_robot]

It makes sense when you acknowledge the fact that she's a trans female.

[Prime_Sol]

What makes sense? That he's wants to be a girl. Ok, I'm cool with that. Do whatever puts a s smile on your face is my motto.

DNA would still say he's a boy no matter what surgery he had.

[Jamie0810]

She's a woman, not a guy. Whether you'd date her or not, please respect that

[TheUglyMonk]

If it was completely based on looks knowing Tharciane wasn't born male then many more guys would say yes.

[Anonymous]

I'd put my dick in that ass no problem. dating is different though. I want kids one day, and no matter what she won't be able to provide me with one.

[Anonymous]

My initial answer is no and my final answer is no. Though there was a second there in between when I had to think about it.

[Anonymous]

If He only has female body parts then I don't see why a straight guy shouldn't take a chance being in a relationship with a guy who has had a sex change

[Anonymous]

No and if you say otherwise like the other commenters then go date a homeless person with aids or you're bigoted in my opinion

[AzureGirl]

No, because I don't date girls.

[MenREvil]

That is a totally bigoted mindset in my opinion.

[AzureGirl]

Sorry not all girls are lesbians?

[MenREvil]

Many trans women can fulfill relationships with biological women way better than men and if you don't believe that you're just discriminating.

[jodie01]

This isn't bigoted though like just because a girl wouldn't date a girl doesn't make her a bigot

[AmyShadowhunter]

she's pretty as hell. I would date her if I were a guy
and that does not make me a bigoted person. it just makese straight. just like you can't judge someone based on their sex you shouldn't judge someone based on their sexuality. is that too hard to understand?

[rufurrealz]

because its not a natural woman, i would say no.

[Listening5]

Of course not.
I like women only, real women.

[JCT666]

I would never date a transgender.

[disgustingweebtrash]

No..

[disgustingweebtrash]

I can't win, I say "yeah" I get spammed with downvotes and if I say "No" I get spammed with downvotes

[TheUglyMonk]

Here's an upvote for you, you can ALWAYS win!!

[disgustingweebtrash]

@TheUglyMonk Thank you friend

[DapperDanTheMan]

If he was actually a woman then yes.

[Tim-loves-it]

Yes I would!

[NotAnthony65]

No...

[Anonymous]

post op?