If the genders were reversed ypud have 30+ feminists telling you you aren't entitled to change your partners appearance.
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its just hair. He asked me not to cut mine because he loves long hair, and even though I'm dying to get a short bob, for now i'm keeping it long. To please him. Because pleasing him makes me feel good. Better than pleasing myself.
Hahaha... Let him be... If he wants long hair. Then let it long.. Bcoz he love it.. And u shuld support him.. Dont feel jealous
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I knoooow and sometimes I look at him and I think "this isn't so bad" but no... I can't 😂 It's just hair... if he doesn't like it he can let it grow back and at least he will have tried for me. That would be god enough.
I don't understand why men want long hair. I really don't. Is it just laziness? Not wanting to pay for the haircut? As for your boyfriend, you either have to get over it, or dump him. You can't force him to cut his hair.
For me it is anti military. Cuting your hair comes from ancient cultures removing men's hair so when in battle it can't be pulled back (exposing their neck for slitting). As someone who disapproves of war/battle/etc it is a mark of my deliberate unreadiness to be drafted into a war.
My boyfriend has long hair, till his shoulder and he does the man bun too and he has a beard as well and he honestly looks damn sexy with it so no issues.
I was in a ldr once and cut mine when I went to go see her.. I mean, he's his own man, but he shouldn't be selfish. Maybe he just doesn't realise how much you don't like it
It's difficult to give a faithful prediction about how he would react. He might like it if you kiss him passionately immediately after cutting his hair.
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Seems a bit extreme for me - Would you get a haircut, piercing or tattoo for him if you didn't like it.
Haircut? Yes definitely. Piercing or tattoo , hell no. Those are permanrnt changes and I would never ask him to have one.
Long hair is awesome. Deal with it.
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If the genders were reversed ypud have 30+ feminists telling you you aren't entitled to change your partners appearance.
its just hair. He asked me not to cut mine because he loves long hair, and even though I'm dying to get a short bob, for now i'm keeping it long. To please him. Because pleasing him makes me feel good. Better than pleasing myself.
Hahaha... Let him be... If he wants long hair. Then let it long.. Bcoz he love it.. And u shuld support him.. Dont feel jealous
I knoooow and sometimes I look at him and I think "this isn't so bad" but no... I can't 😂 It's just hair... if he doesn't like it he can let it grow back and at least he will have tried for me. That would be god enough.
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U may do one thing.. Ask him that how he grow long hair.. And how he take care of his hair.. U do the same..
I don't understand why men want long hair. I really don't. Is it just laziness? Not wanting to pay for the haircut?
As for your boyfriend, you either have to get over it, or dump him. You can't force him to cut his hair.
lazyness?
its way harder to have long hair than short lol
guys want it because they like it
feminism at the max
Guys can have it, by all means. That doesn't mean women are going to like it.
For me it is anti military. Cuting your hair comes from ancient cultures removing men's hair so when in battle it can't be pulled back (exposing their neck for slitting).
As someone who disapproves of war/battle/etc it is a mark of my deliberate unreadiness to be drafted into a war.
Wtf!!! For the first- some women like, actually many, go see the most like man Instagrams
For the second, war, really, we are taking about war?
@Smegskull Maybe that's not the case of @Asker , because she has told that she met him with short hair.
Don't worry he'll get over the man bun soon. I see less of them lately. Of course I'm in Memphis, so not quite the hipster paradise.
My boyfriend has long hair, till his shoulder and he does the man bun too and he has a beard as well and he honestly looks damn sexy with it so no issues.
It's a generation thing. For some reason younger guys have man buns and beards, men my age are short hair and men my dad's age are hippy hair.
@JohnDoesy I know a lot of guys around our age that have long hair. On the other hand not many guys who are 60+ where I live have hippy hair.
Well location also makes a difference. I live in the Appalachian mountains
My philosophy is; I don't have to look at me, she does, so she can choose what she has to look at.
That's me too
She could shave it off in his sleep "as a prank".
Tell him exactly what you told us, and talk to him about it
I was in a ldr once and cut mine when I went to go see her.. I mean, he's his own man, but he shouldn't be selfish. Maybe he just doesn't realise how much you don't like it
Tie him down and cut it off
Lol I've thought about it 😂 or cutting it in his sleep 😂 But he would hate me 😂
It's difficult to give a faithful prediction about how he would react. He might like it if you kiss him passionately immediately after cutting his hair.
If you don't like being told what to do with your hair/body, do not tell him what to do. Get with a guy who has shorter hair
If you don't like his haircut, break up with him. DO NOT CONTROL YOUR MAN
Lol I'm not breaking up with him over his hair x)
BREAK UP
But long hair on guys is sexy!
Meeeeh... Well, sometimes I'm like "oh, ok, this little warrior style is cool" (he has a beard too) but at the end of the day, nope.
why even the word "cut", that's so painful. Come on men with long hair are sexy,,,, just leave it in peace
If you can't accept something as simple as a man bun, then you don't love him. If you truly love him, you should accept everything.
But man buns are shit, my dude.
@phaggot I think so too, but if she really loves him, she should tolerate his shit.
don't must really like your long hair maybe be you ware there with your long beatfull hair in his dreams long time ago before you even meet
That makes not one bit of sense
LoL maybe my English sucks
He needs a new girlfriend!
Put gum in his hair while he is sleeping.
What happens if he gusts passed off at her and then does the same to her
I mean gets
I was kidding, geez
Cut his bun in his sleep