We have been living together for about 4 months now. He will wait until I fall asleep and then he'll go hang out with his friends and won't come home until 3 or 4am. This happens about half of the nights out of the week.
What bothers me is that he never really tells me. He just leaves while I'm asleep and sometimes I'll wake up and he'll be gone and I'll miss him. :( On the flip side, he brought his friends over to our apartment at 1am the other night and didn't tell me; I was sleeping in my underwear!
We haven't gone to bed together in a long time and I just miss the days when he would cuddle me to sleep. Instead, now I feel like he thinks I'm boring. He just plays video games until I fall asleep and then leaves. I don't know what to do or if I even have a right to be upset here. Of course he should hang out with his friends but I definitely don't stay out that late... Maybe I should start!
What bothers me is that he never really tells me. He just leaves while I'm asleep and sometimes I'll wake up and he'll be gone and I'll miss him. :( On the flip side, he brought his friends over to our apartment at 1am the other night and didn't tell me; I was sleeping in my underwear!
We haven't gone to bed together in a long time and I just miss the days when he would cuddle me to sleep. Instead, now I feel like he thinks I'm boring. He just plays video games until I fall asleep and then leaves. I don't know what to do or if I even have a right to be upset here. Of course he should hang out with his friends but I definitely don't stay out that late... Maybe I should start!
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