You can't know what you would want if you were male, because you are female and have totally different desires and priorities than a male.
For most males, sex is Priority #1. If the guy is one of the few that most girls consider to be very attractive, then he will rarely struggle for sex and so he won't consider it a big deal (few are concerned about things that are in abundance for them). And if the guy has a girlfriend or wife and is getting sex regularly, sex isn't such a big deal. But most other guys - the ones not getting sex - will have getting sex as their top priority when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex. Whether she is classy or promiscuous is a relatively minor concern.
Women often don't understand that, because most women can get sex anytime they want it (not necessarily from the person they really want it from - that's a different question), so few women thirst for sex the way most men do.
Men also have a very different role in reproduction than women - men are pollinators, and our job is to "spread our seed" and fertilize eggs - something we can do in just a few minutes. Women carry children, give birth, and then feed and care for them for several years. The time scale of "required involvement" couldn't be more different. That effects how men and women want sex and relationships - women putting a much higher premium on relationships than men when single.
Anyway, both types of women will have men who are attracted to them, but it won't always be the ones they want...
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TBH the men now days just want to have sex they don't care if she is classy or not me I am waiting for the classy one
I curse like a sailor, I'm very poised, sophisticated, articulate and ooze sex appeal so most would say I'm slutty.
Being a conservative minded person doesn't guarantee you'll be classy. Class can't be taught or bought and this is why many women argue that men want bad girls, when they themselves are no good because they interpret vanilla as being wife material, she could be a snake.
You are who you are, and no facade you put up with stick because it's not genuine.
I too dont hang around anybody male or female that says nothing but profanity. , I have male and female friends.. I think it depends on the man. most would probably prefer a classy woman, and then some men want the other. so it depends.
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all depends on what they are after.
a wife or a good time.
A woman in the streets, freak in the sheets. Aka Respect.
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I prefer classy women someone with a head on their shoulders and won't break your heart
Classy, for sure. The promiscuous ones are fun, but you can’t take them seriously... like... ever. Which sucks, because they are the ones who grab your attention faster.
Definitely classy and sophisticated. A woman like that is 10 levels above. Robin Wright or Helena Christensen in thinking
Yes I feel the same way. I've only dated two other guys beside my fiance and once I found my fiance I knew he was the one. I also surround myself with classy people
I wouldn't consider those things mutually exclusive.
I dunno, neither? People who are overly sophisticated and classy tend to be pretentious. Promiscuous women tend to be dishonest at times, though. I'd prefer a girl who's more down-to-earth and friendly.
I prefer classy ones. Even for short term, or hookuos, id much rather have classy girls, even tough they are much harder to obtain
I'd like her to seem very lady like and give off that impression but be able to be a total freak all day ever day
Eventually, Classy is much more preferred over slutty. Really though, we love classy. When we are young though we also wanna get laid.
Depends on the guy and what he is looking for.
Does he want a long-lasting and commited relationship or just bang?You can be promiscuous and behave and dress elegantly lol.
Nah, I like my friends fun and rough.He want the second type to have fun with and the first type to go home to
Well, sophisticated looks to the better choice but, I look for a women's character, personality, how welcoming she is and whether, she is good from the inside.
Promiscuous women for sex, classy women for relationship/marriage.
They aren't mutually exclusive. A classy girl with a lot of confidence in herself is extremely sexy
you know the saying, "Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets"? its usually true.
I like girls with class who want a decent relationship. Girls who are slutty aren't looking for a relationship they're looking for quick sex.
Depends on WHAT you want them FOR.
Are you talking mate material or a quick fuck?I prefer a woman who is classy everywhere except in bed.
Depends on what im looking for if I just want a casual fuck no if Im looking for a girlfriend or anything along those lines then yes.
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