Asexual a deal breaker for a relationship?

[MrAhegao]

So I am technically still following abstinence till marriage, Because I found it romantic but someone made a comment at work that they weren't convinced I wasn't asexual. So I did some looking and it is true that I don't feel sexually attracted to anyone it's always a physical attraction.

So do I tell a potential girlfriend that I'm abstaining from sex till marriage, but I may also be asexual?

[XRabbitHeartX]

Doesn't asexual mean that you are not sexually attracted meaning you have no desire to actually have sex?

If you find yourself getting horny and wanting sex then you are not really asexual..

[MrAhegao]

I get horny but don't want sex.

[BigBadBo]

Being horny literally means you want sex... Im confused by all of this now... Lol. Perhaps you just don't know what you want? I really don't know.. But if you were asexual which I doubt you are... How are you going to satisfy your wife? Thats not really fair is it? Unless she's also asexual?

[XRabbitHeartX]

@BigBadBo Yeah I don't get how someone who has no sexual attraction to anything get horny...