Boyfriend wants to go to strip club, what do I do? (Page 2)

[ObliviousJester]

Have you ever gone to see a males dance revue, sort of thing?
One good thing is that he was open enough to approach you about it.

[Asker]

Never seen anything of the kind. I follow my own standards. And no, he didn't mention it for 3 years until I actually asked, just casually, not expecting the response that I got

[OatsnWhey]

You're being a bit overdramatic and ridiculous. But hey, that's just my opinion.

[ashnomore]

It ain't cheating but if dont allow him its ur choice

[Izumiblu]

Go with him?
Tell him you don’t want him to go?

[Asker]

I don't want to go, but I told him I don't want him to go either, he just wouldn't listen to my opinion let alone try to compromise :(

[loranslove]

Don't do that cuz when you do that you will be cheap stay as Dimond just one man can see her beauty

[Asker]

I'm already only for him, but why should he think it;s okay to go and look at other girls too?

[SifuDoge]

tell him you want to get a dancing job at sed strip club.

[EllaKierra]

Hahahahaha omg yes.. i want to see if he would be okay with that lol

[EllaKierra]

Well im sorry but he’s a dickhead lol if its cheating in your mind... then its cheating. He’s doing that to YOU, and i don’t understand how can he be so insensitive when you said that hurt you... I don't know why he’s so stubborn.. im sorry but it just pisses me off, i can imagine how you feel... hang in there girl❤️

[EllaKierra]

Whoops wrong comment

[SifuDoge]

:)) somehow i figured that out

[SultanT123]

He's your boyfriend then act like a stripper for him.

[Asker]

I do everything I can and he says he is 100% sexually satisfied with me, but he still wants to go to a strip club, and I just can't change that

[SultanT123]

When he still wants to go to strip club and hook up with other girls then maybe he can't get enough from you or it's just his character. So if you deliver your 100% to satisfy your partner even then he wants to go to strip club that you don't like which obvious then he doesn't deserve you. Or from my opinion he doesn't deserve anyone.

[3HoleSlut]

Lighten up! It's not like he's going to fuck any of them, not cheating in my book. In fact, go with him!

[Asker]

True, but what about lap dances? I understand the "look but don't touch" mindset but I can't see how people are okay with a stripper having her body all over their partner 🤮

[Anonymous]

Tell him don't go if he really loves you he would respect your decision. Going to stripclubs are prone to sex.

[Anonymous]

First strippers that have sex with clients are instantly fired as it's bad for buisness and secondly dump his ass he sounds like he would be far better of with out you

[Brongg]

I mean he looks at porn is this Cheating too?

[Asker]

Tbf, he actually doesn't. But it's not like I'd be happy if he did

[Brongg]

Girl get over your insecurity

[Asker]

I've been insecure in the past and I'm over it. Now I just want him to be loyal

[Roskin523]

Wow, he is hiding his porn watching habits. That's not good.

[Asker]

We're honest with each other, I trust that he isn't hiding anything. Besides, back when he was, I totally knew it anyway. I'm good with finding these things out

[Brongg]

You are totally not over it

[Anon-ymous1]

It's not up to you. You don't own him.

[Robbyboys]

Why do you count it as cheating?

[Asker]

Forgot to mention, he says he'd get a lapdance. It's a sexual thing with another woman and I don't think that's okay to participate in if you're not single

[Robbyboys]

Did you explain that shit to him

[Asker]

Yeah, but he's equally stubborn. It's hard cos we normally compromise but this time I don't know if I should give in, make him give in, or just break up

[Robbyboys]

If you feel like it's that serious then break up

[Fukaroo]

Tell him to watch porn instead

[Nice222]

Go with him you will enjoy it.

[ImMackFreeze]

Tell him not go

[saud1998]

Don't let him go.

[Asker]

What makes you say that?

[Anonymous]

Don't go there