I think I might be bisexual?

[Anonymous]

So were do I start I definitely more common for me to like men and usually It more of a emotional thing when it a guy but I'm slightly attracted to girls too but I always brushed it off and forget about it and I've had urge to kiss female friends before too and I recently started notice this side of me more recently for example if you are from the UK and watch I'm a celebrity you'll know what I'm talking about but anyway I've started having a massive crush on Vanessa White from the Saturdays she's definitely the type of girl id have be attracted to. I've grow up with women all my life and my oldest sister has always had her suppositions and there's be rumors about me that I like girls but I've always gotten really defensive about the topic and denied it because I know it sounds silly but I'm scared my bound and trust I have with my sister's and female friends with disappear because they'll not want to act the same way around me as they think I'll be attracted to them and my that parents will think I'm dirty and I'm just going through my slutly phase or something. I don't see the point in coming out either as I don't see how it anyone business who I'm attracted to but mine and I shouldn't have to label myself based on who I'm attracted to but I've recently started making friends with a more open minded group of guys and because the it's all guys of course the rumors have started again but I don't care what they think of me and I actually feel more like I could talk to them that I might be bisexual and they'd be really expecting of it and even encourage me to try dating girls as they all talk about girls all the time and I feel like I should join in but I don't want them to stocked and them to make a big deal about it.

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[zoealexis97]

I was in your situation. And the first time I kissed a girl I knew I wasn’t crazy. I’ve had plenty of female friends and lay it out like this. Just because I like girls doesn’t mean I’m attracted to all of them. You can be beautiful and I can appreciate that without wanting to be more than friends. It’s the same with guys I have guy friends that are no more than friends. It’s best to take a straightforward approach with females. Knock them off their high horse and if they trip about it that’s on them not you. Family wise I only told my mom. I don’t have a father or siblings in the picture and my mom is very loving and open minded so that part was easy for me I don't know how to handle that side of the situation. But be yourself don’t worry so much about what other people think. There’s always someone else out there who has gone through the same sort of situation and people are more understanding than you’d think.

[ITKing]

If you're bi that's your business. Keep it to yourself.

[geeksquadjm]

If you wanna be a dick, that's your business. Keep it to yourself

[Asker]

@geeksquadjm I don't think he's being a "dick" at all I don't think it anyone business either if I'm bi

[geeksquadjm]

Sure but if he doesn't have a valid opinion to offer to your post then he should simply ignore and move on

[ITKing]

Lol... These young boys. It's no need to entertain the nonsense. Sense your brain hasn't fully developed yet geek I'll help you out as best I can.

The asker thinks she's bisexual meaning she likes men and woman.

I said if you're bi that's your business bc the asker said she doesn't see the point in coming out bc it's not anyone business if she have a thing for women. But if she did come out it's still her business.

I told her to keep it to herself bc she said your sister and friends might act different around her if she comes out different and/or disappear too, and the asker doesn't want that to happen. She also said her parents might think she's dirty and going through a slutty phase right now for liking women. She also said there are rumors about her sexuality, so she's hanging around guys.

If she keeps it to herself, she can avoid a bunch of stuff dummy.

Don't expect another response from me, so you can waste your time replying back. I will not read it.

Dumbass!