What is the point of been a women of the king, when the king is fucking half of his kingdom? Oh wait, is to be a queen! Are you saying that the king is not loyal to a queen? The queen is in the same level that those girls that the king fuck? Fuck no! Just because your definition of loyalty is that, doesn't make it the truth.. You are talking about men and what is wrong for a men to do, when you don't know nothing about the mentality and desires of men. You only believe in everything that society told you without thinking about if it makes sense.
Yes there are plenty of loyal guys, but you'll never be with one. So here's the thing if you're a very attractive girl... you're likely only going to want to date a very attractive guy. That very attractive guy has tons of very attractive girls waiting for him. At your age it's unlikely a guy is going to have the will power or the decency to refrain from cheating. If you lower your standards and date down, the guy you're with will be so happy he'll never cheat on you.
Just the double edged sword of attractive partners.
Of course there are people who are monogamous.
I am one of them.
But i know the feeling.. many people around me too flirts, dates with many people at the same time. Seems like a norm you know. But it is not.
Yeah
I mean you're only 16 teens barely think with their brains it's like one day you're in love with a girl the next day you fell in love with cheetos
i almost got into a relationship w/ a guy but then i screwed it up, and i can’t stop thinking about him, i wish i wasn't so loyal to him
Are u loyal?
If you think you are, then yes they do
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It's been like that since the beginning. People didn't just start cheating in the modern day. It's not just men either, it's women. I think women actually get away with it a lot more so for all we know, women cheat a lot more than men.
Almost every woman I know has cheated and gotten away with it. Ironically enough, they get mad at their boyfriend if they so much as talk to another woman. Yet they cheated. Men and women cheat. Their are loyal people in the world, but in any case, loyalty is not easy. Being loyal to friends that make things hard on you is not easy. You just have to remain positive.
Humans aren't polygamous, I believe humans as a whole are meant to be monogamous, as that is what gives us family values and good nature. When you are polygamous you will not raise your children right, you confuse them and they grow up not understanding the value of family.
In short, yes. Loyal people do exist, I am one of them. However the previous generation didn't know how to raise children so they have now become immature, unguided children who seek to disrupt a good family life by constantly cheating. But believe me when I say the loyal one's are out there.
Loyalty is an easy concept when you are single. Whe' tou are in a couple, temptations are all around and tje real struggle begins. You maybe think like an angel now, but the reality is different. Not everyone cheat (fortunately), but everyone struggle (more or less) with the temptation (strong or not) of other men/women. Most of us just keep it as a fantasy.
Asker,
Sadly you are captured by conceptions that society has been feeding you for the last 10 years..
And thats what happens when you guys enjoy all of your apps, and social medias...
Thats the education you must suffer.
For your question:
No. There are a lot of faithful guys, but apparently not where you come from.
For some of us the definitions of "family" and "a woman" have much greater values than what some people might have.
The reason (nowadays) for men to fuck and dump is mostly because they are looking for validations and authorizations regarding their "manhood"/"masculinity".
Its like drugs.. can't really stop it once uve started.
Only self awareness could get you out of this shit hole.
I was also very dissapointed in a world and wasn't sure if it was possible to stay trully faithful the whole life. Then I met people who were.
Also polyamory is in our nature, but it doesn't bring long term happiness. Just like alcohol, drugs and everything else. Our only difference from animals is conciousness and ability to control ourselves from our insticts or natural urges.
Much of that is because the polygamists are the ones always on the prowl, hooking up and dropping everyone. Look for your more reserved guys. They are far more likely to want to be in a relationship.
Thats funny because im now on a level that i don't want to marry or even have something for real ( a commited relashionship) because girls betray a lot, especially in bachlorette parties, so yeah, i think nothing real is the best answer, it's like, allways thinking that the relashionship might end for some stupid reason, because that's the infortunate reality
Loyalty is still common, just not in some groups of people. If you look in the right places, and take your time, maybe a lot of time, you will find loyal people who will treat you decently. However, keep in mind, people are not perfect and make mistakes.
yes people can be and are loyal. polygamy is not nearly as prolific as people may think. the vast majority of people still believe in and practice monogamy
however at your age many people still aren't really ready to settle down and be with only one person for the rest of their lives
The problem is, it takes one person to be unloyal to another and that's it. They're slightly fucked up forever.
You also have to take into account the guys around you are young and still trying to find themselves. We are creatures of constant change. Constantly wanting excitement and wonder. Until you meet the right person.
You haven't even started your life yet. Don't even expect long term potential till you get to into your 20s.
Polygamous doesn't mean cheating. Cheating is when it's dishonest.
Yeah, they do. They're a bunch of desperate fuckers like me though, so it would be best to just steer clear of them.
Loyal people exist but they stop being loyal to anyone to prevent getting hurt.
The example is me I'm loyal to the people who like me
finding a partner that fits your need isn't easy. that's just how life is.
You're basically asking "why are humans human"
Yes they do
a lot of them
Some religions even consider cheating as a sin
Loyal? Is that a candy
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