Is it normal for texting to slow down in a relationship after 2 months?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I’s texts have slowed down drastically. I understand that keeping up a conversation all day can be tiring, which is why I sometimes don’t do it.

my boyfriend used to be so into our texting, he’d send cute messages and we’d arrange I hangout and have conversations about anything. Lately I’m finding it kind of awkward to talk to him, as all I’m getting from him is boring small talk. Sometimes he’ll compliment me within a text about something small (probably trying to change the subject) and I’ll compliment him back, and all I’ll get is just him copying what I said.

weve established that no matter how many times we text we’ll always love each other. Could be once a week and he said he’ll still love me. But lately it’s just been boring to talk to him, and our texts have boiled down to almost none a day (I’m okay with this because I’m not a clingy person)

i just wanna know if this is a sin he’s losing interest? Or is this okay for the relationship?

[Blueberry7]

Yes don't worry it is normal .. but you shouldn't get comfortable with it.. I've been on a long distance relationship for almost two years now .. so we facedcan some cold texting days but you should keep it up by finding new stuff to talk about . Of course makeI sure these stuff are interesting for both of you not only to you also you can play games or roleplay or something... sorry if this inappropriate but I found thatthat sexting can heat things up dramatically.. send him some pics or some flirty mesaage.. but if you not open to it yet then its your choice.. lastly I have to mention that there is a study that says " if a relationship stands for more than 3 months then its a real and true one" so give it a while and the best you can and I promise you stuff will flow better later.. I wish you the best

[Donnahs]

You can only text about so much, you kind of need to be in each other's lives living together to move on.

[Heythere2013]

No, that's not normal. I know a lot people will say honeymoon stage can't last forever, not necessary to text as much now etc. If you care about a person, you will continue treating them the same, the chemistry and love should never slow down. My boyfriend and I are almost a year in and we still text each other like crazy. Funny messages, cute messages, funny videos/memes/pictures and good morning/night messages.

When that started happening w/my ex, I thought it normal. Slowly I started noticing his behavior change. He started not wanting to see me as much, more time between texts and he would get easily annoyed w/me. Keep and eye out and if anything talk to him about it.

[Temmec714]

From experience, yes. I’d say my boyfriend after 4 months completely did a 180 on the texts. Used to be often & cute & flirty. And now it’s very boring too. But, we have moved on to call each other instead of text (he hates texting). The thing is A LOT of guys hate texting. But they do it in the beginning during the “chase” stage

[owens97]

2 months isn't a relationship but sure