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I think it's kind of a deal u both have to help each other thats it just a mentor or a companion of a kind but beware of u or that guy finds someone the other one will be left out so be careful for that
Are you ok with this? That's all that matters. Sounds like you aren't ok with the relationship. Ask him and try to define what you are. What you want, what he wants.
Just an advice, find someone who could love you as you could love him, don't water your time in nothing, keep being friends but find a guy that makes you feel that romantic connection because it could be and the next corner and you are not gonna notice
I think in all honestly you should become really good friends with someone before you get into a relationship get comfortable as being around them before you go on a date just hang out first, take turns paying, and then end up marrying your best friend
Once someone told me if it works you don't need to label it, just go with the flow you both have and enjoy the moment and see where this leads you
Completely unrelated but is anyone else sick of all the ads GAG has started putting up?
But back on topic sounds like just a rebound thing. Dating for convenience.. whatever you wanna call it. Because if you really had feelings for each other the two of you would have been dating from the start. Now suddenly when you go through a break up the “feelings” fall out of the sky.
Ask yourself why you’re just now getting these feelings. Is it because you’re hurting and vulnerable?
You noticed too? It’s also bullshit considering they play the same as over and over again even when you refresh the page.
Actually no... I met him in 9th grade, and we became really close from the beginning, atraction started to develop un time... But he had personal problems and he wasn't looking for a relationship, then i started dating other people, but we still remained close friends, then best friends, being very comfortable with each other... Hugs, playing with each other's hair, leaning on each other's shoulders... It was normally for us, the atraction was still there, we decided to ignore it or turn it in pervy jokes, thay was our primary sense of humor,
Forget labels and pay attention to your feelings, it’s more important for both of you to be happy with your relationship than to identify yourselves as “something “. Enjoy your life and leave prejudices away!!
Definitely sounds like a friends with benefits thing. I don’t think you need sex to consider it as much. Good thing your boyfriend is aromantic. It it were me in his shoes, I would’ve already fallen in love. I’m a sucker for affection.
You're dating... there's no other way to say it; you are in a relationship and seeing each other.
When I was in a similar situation, I just decided that me and my now boyfriend are in a pseudo-relationship. I guess you can use that to define it.
It's called dating girl. gonfornyour best friend I did.
Yes this is ok your emotionally not ready but its completely ok at least u know u already got someone when u are and honestly I think its probably cute
You will need to have sex with him a few times before you can define your relationship. You should get on that as soon as possible.
It's ok and what you have right now for lack of a more formal word is a, "thing"
You both waste time and dont know what you want. You aren't emotionally unavailable. If you were.. you wouldn't stay that much with him anf kiss him etc. Thot.
Well, it really sounds like romance between two people who no longer no what love feels like.
Well give it time. Sounds like you are in love is he with you?
Stop trying to label it and just enjoy each other.
Literally friends with benefits.
Don't give it a name. Just enjoy it as is.