I never slept in a bed with my dad. Nor have I had experience with abuse (I'm not coming from a weird place). Just an honest place. I feel like night time intimacy shouldn't be in bed with dad's girlfriend, dad, and daughter in bed. I excuse myself everytime. I grab a blanket and pillow to sleep downstairs.
I can't figure out what's going on but I'm uncomfortable. I don't even know how to bring it up without sounding like a jerk. It's just something that weirds me out every night. Like for me, I don't want to sleep in the same bed with someone else's child.
I just expected intimacy because our relationship is still new. I've been crying every night because I don't feel warmth at night and my boyfriend expects me to immediately be a mother to his daughter. But it seems inappropriate to have his daughter in our bed. Since she barely knows me.
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