Would you forgive cheating if your partner was under the influence of alcohol/or and drugs? (Page 2)

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Would you forgive cheating if your partner was under the influence of alcohol/or and drugs?

lexythelou22 · Answer

"Drunk actions are sober thoughts." Get yourself a significant other who will get drunk/high and, in a state of inebriation, show your pics to people and talk about how much they love you.

MindYourEyes · Answer

Fuck no. They made those choices and know what could possibly happen. or as majority of bitches will try and use that excuse. I don’t tolerate that shit

Eryxx · Answer

I wouldn't be getting in a relationship with a drug addict/alcoholic in the first place.

Alice2398 · Answer

Nope. If they can't handle their drinking that it's so bad but they'd cheat on me they've clearly got issues and need help and I'd never ever dare someone who did drugs

candycanehearts · Answer

I dont think i would date someone who drinks a lot and even drunk people have a awerness its still their fault so no i wouldn't stay with them

Bananaman177 · Answer

Absolutely not, I've been all the way drunk and all the way stoned and that excuse is pathetic, drugs and alcohol don't change your personality, they expose it and amplify it.

9teen · Answer

Never. And if he starts with drugs or alcohol (drunkenness) I'll wave him good-bye immediately. I don't need an unhealthy person and a bad influence for my future children in my life.

NearlyNapping · Answer

Nope. Nor would I forgive them for being that high or that drunk. All three things are a deal breaker.

sheezuskist · Answer

If that's what there excuse is, makes me wonder what the next one will be when it happens again, unfortunately yes it will happen again, how many times do you want to get hurt might be the question you might contemplate asking yourself

Anonymous · Answer

Any contact of the genitals is immediate grounds for a break up (hands, oral, penetration).

A drunken kiss would really piss me off but if she came back begging on her knees I might slowly forgive her. But it would take a while to build back up the trust.

pumaOH24 · Answer

If something happened while they were under the influence and it was only a one time thing I would forgive them.

NicolaD · Answer

No, never, although having known him so well I don't worry about it anyway. He doesn't drink and has never taken drugs.

weysally · Answer

I would forgive, reason first I have cheated and also I think that desire isn't a tap to be turned on or off,

Oxxymoron · Answer

Drugs and alcohol give you the courage to do shit you would’ve been too scared to do sober lmao. Trust me doll, one word, ANAL 😂

wankiam · Answer

if she was honest about it afterwards i may forgive on the understanding that in future she would tell me upfront. its lies that i couldnt forgive

Drooogie4 · Answer

Nope. A cheater is a cheater. Even if they were "too drunk to remember " or whatever, still says they can't vs trusted. So nope.

BCRanger10 · Answer

If you know what they are and what they do, then you are responsible for whatever happens afterwards.

tonicandgin · Answer

No matter how high i've gotten i can still control my thoughts. My motor skills are the only thing i can't control.

Johnnie1000 · Answer

Not for those reasons. Besides you would have just told him that if he wants to screw around he only has to get or pretend to be drunk and you find that alright.

Jjpayne · Answer

It depends on how frequent and how sensire he was, but not drinking at parties might be on the table to talk about

madgoat · Answer

It's perhaps a small mitigating factor but it does not negate poor decision making and restraint on their part. I'm also not sure how drunk a man can be and still perform.

Mexicoman101 · Answer

No because a drug problem is in and of itself a red flag.

joebbray1829 · Answer

😂😂😂 fuck no, that's the worst excuse in the book. Deep down inside you know what you're doing and cheating is unforgivable like how could you trust the person the same way after that and how do you know they won't do it again?

NeglectedChild · Answer

If you want to test a person's character, let them win a game of monopoly and see how they act.  Absolute power corrupts absolutely.

princessfromjupiter · Answer

No wtf cheating is cheating regardless. I want someone who doesn't just suddenly abandon all moral compass 2 whiskeys into the night.

mintmint1990 · Answer

If I ran over someone while under the influence of alcohol, is it still my fault? Lmao

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I'd forgive if the situation seemed like rape (eg someone drugged his drink) but not if he voluntarily did things.

WillyD · Answer

No! alcohol and drugs doesn't change the person it just uninhibits what was already there. And it's a poor defense.

newPython · Answer

If she was just my girlfriend and not my wife, no big deal. Wouldn't like it but would get over it after a few days.

slatyb · Answer

I would much rather they created sober. I could understand that and could talk about it. I don't have time for alcoholics or addicts.

Wowgirl10q · Answer

No not buying it Drugs do not make you a cheater They just help to show his true colors

d_e141 · Answer

Here is the thing... We have a saying here and I quote " your real true personality shows up when you drink. If you're good you behave good and vise versa "
And for me true love cannot be affected by anything including alcohol or drugs

Piteka5 · Answer

Depends on her reaction to it, was she really sorry for it? If yes I guess I would let it slide. But if she was around there doing drugs that would be enough to get me pissed, taking drugs would be worse than the effects of taking them

Reggieray · Answer

One poor life choice does not excuse another poor life choice.

Mado108 · Answer

Nope! It just means that the alcohol gave him the strenght to do it. But the intention was there...

Nik1hil · Answer

I would break Relationship if she started drugs or got alcohol addiction.. So far be it for me to get cheated by her..  Under drugs

dragonfruitA · Answer

First of all, I would not date a druggie. Also, i don't give second chances to cheaters

Lish89 · Answer

I've been drunk and high, no excuse for it. Your perfectly capable of keeping your pants on.

Rcjh1987 · Answer

You are still responsible for your actions whether or not you've been drinking.

anmari2001 · Answer

hardly and i will probably won't trust them, why even use drugs if you can be easily tempted

Bloody_Claw · Answer

If it is not their fault maybe but even then it might be very situational.

tlrmrs · Answer

He still? Would've done it. Unless he was literally on his knees sobbing like a madman begging me to forgive him with sheer guilt on his face, I'd break it off.

StingRayxoxo · Answer

Cheating would break me.

Scarecrow13 · Answer

I would be willing to forgive, but that wouldn't be a determine factor. If you are under the influence, that's no excuse, how did you get in that situation in the first place?

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

... This again?

Twat_Twig · Answer

Noooope. No fucking excuse lol. He shouldn't be in that kind of setting without me anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

doesn't matter how drunk you are you know right from wrong. I would kick his ass go the curb so quick!

hotstuffSRD · Answer

No idea but she won't be my girl anymore for sure 🤟

reptocarl · Answer

Fuck no. Drunk or wasted isn’t a get out of jail free card

worldscolide · Answer

It really depends.. If she chose to get drunk... No.. But if someone drugged her without her knowing thats not cheating thats rape.

Dionigi · Answer

I don't want to date someone who is addicted to mind altering and dangerous substances. Update: I don't find it shocking. Drugs and alcohol are big red flags.

Anonymous · Answer

Never! Being under the influence of drugs is enough for me to dump him, let alone, being unfaithful!

Poormanscomedian · Answer

Nope, dope is not an excuse, but I would not have anything to do with those sort of people. Anyone that does is an idiot with no self respect. Only losers date losers

DBRECK · Answer

If that was the reason or excuse that she was trying to tell me then absolutely not. But if she was not using that as an excuse, and it was just one of the facts, and she was sincere and I cared for her then absolutely... Love conquers all.

Anonymous · Answer

Alcohol and drugs dont make you to cheat. If he wasn't in drugs and if he hadn't drink we still would cheating on you. TRUST ME

genericname85 · Answer

drugs are not an "excuse". they are an additional argument to break up.

Hamer77 · Answer

Cheating is cheating, drugs or alcohol Is an excuse, forgive them once then they think it’s okay to cheat again and again whilst off their heads. It’s a cop out and a wrong relationship for you if you even consider cheating.

Mikey_Ramone · Answer

Not gonna happen. Cheating is still cheating, hello?

Anonymous · Answer

Of course not, as a professional alcoholic I know perfectly how chemicals affect the brain, and I know that cheating because of alcohol is simply not a thing. You cheat because you are a worthless piece of shit. That is the only reason that exists.

chrisbigman · Answer

Unless she was forced against her will at gun or knife-point, no. Using booze or drugs as an excuse to cheat is ridiculous. How 'bout DON'T CHEAT?

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