Im currently in a long distance relationship of 2+ years. Lately my boyfriend has been really lazy in calling me. It has become a point of irritation for me. Today, on valentines day all i wanted was to feel special. I wanted him to call me and talk a lot on the phone. I wanted to feel like we were kind of together. Instead, the first message he sends me is: you ruined this day. I hadn't even done anything. So i ignore it and just say: happy valentines day babe. Fast forward to lunch. He said I make him hate me, and then hangs up on me. Later were good again cus i really didn't want to ruin this day so were on the phone, after he went out witb his friends all night. He was out with them for several hours. I never said anything about it. He comes home, calls me and says hell only talk to me for half an hour. So im like fine but why are you counting time? Do i not deserve more than that? And then all hell breaks loose as usual. He becomes dominant, says i should do whatever i want to and break up with him, hangs up on me, ignores my calls and for the grand finale: tells me this is no relationship. Im sobbing. Im so hurt. He always makes remarks like that. I could never say i hated him or say jt never was a relationship. He always says these this and it hurts so bad. i love him more than anything but he just won't change. Its only getting worse ( the bad words and anger)
What do i do?
What do i do?
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