I tried... its almost toxic for you both.. nothing wrong with us both as individuals just together we make a bad match.. he's still one of my best friends which is a gift that dating didn't ruin our relationship.. He tried cuddling and hated it.. I tried not cuddling and felt like he didn't want me.. he clearly did but we tried dating more than once thinking that we could beat it.. we fight a lot as friends we hardly fight.. he will always mean a lot to me..
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Absolutely! We would probably get along great, LOL
I'm not really a cuddler- I prefer wrestling, tackling, and... well not clinging to my partner. Even in the winter, I tend to be warm bodied, so if I'm touching someone too long, I get hot. And I certainly don't cuddle in the summer- it's hot, humid, and having someone clinging to me? NO.
It's okay in moderation, but if a guy told me he didn't want to cuddle, I certainly wouldn't mind.
No way. I'm such a cuddler... I cuddle all my friends, for pete's sake. I can't imagine dating someone who didn't like cuddles. Also. No way could I share a bed with someone who didn't cuddle... he would have to put a line of pillows down the middle because I automatically drift toward the other person while I'm asleep
No I love cuddling! It is so so nice and cozy! But I can't sleep sideways so it's just cuddling for a long time first and then sleeping with my face down and one leg on the side! Haha! my boyfriend though can sleep sideways while cuddling and doesn't like it when I stop our hugs to sleep with my face down
Pfft, if we're dating they really don't got a choice with cuddling.
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My favorite part of every day is getting in bed, spooning with my girlfriend, and going to sleep with my arms around her. I really want that!
I agree cuddling is so comforting. Its a must I like to be close to the one I love.
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Unless there is a very legit reason why he doesn't want to cuddle... But I don't think I want to.
Would be very hard. Would probably be a dealbreaker
I will teach him how to by wrapping him up with my arms
No. I need all the cuddles I can get.
I need cuddles in a relationship. If your partner won't go near you during the day for a cuddle , then at bed time you won't feel like going near them and then they wonder why. Then they accuse you of not loving them. I wonder how many marriages broke up because of this
Yes. I blame my mom. I hate being touched unless we are about to fuck. My mom didn't give hugs or touch us. So even now I can tell I picked up the trait
It would be hard to, but I would only stay if everything else was great. Not everyone us perfect, and not everyone is the lovey dovey kind, so we all have to be mindful of that. A guy or girl can show more that just cuddling for affection if they really care
I would first wonder what kind of individual they are. Don't know very many people that dislike cuddling. I know girls that hate sex and oral sex but I have never met anyone that dislikes cuddling.
Nope. I'm a hugger and a cuddler. It would make me sad if I found out my SO doesn't like hugs and cuddles 😢
Nope. I’m always cold. I live off my significant other’s body heat or I would freeze to death lol
If your not cuddling then what are you doing? There would be no point to the relationship.
For me, dating someone who doesn’t cuddle is like not having oxygen-they’re both a must😂
I have. In fact, nom 'cuddlers" are who I mostly attract. So much so that when I do attract one who cleaves, it still even now catches me off guard. I am not anti-cuddling. It just remains a foreign to me.
Hmm, I don't feel like that would be as much fun...🤔😅
It's pretty the only reason why I seek a relationship: To cuddle the shit out of her :)
Physical touch is one of my top love languages, it would probably become a problem if she didn't want to be close regularly.
Physical touch is one of my love languages so my answer is no. I would feel disconnected to them if the they want to touch me for some reason.
Definetly, I can't stand having too much interaction without being self conscious so this would be an easy fix
as with everything to live, the balance is important. not cuddling at all would be a deal breaker but her being stuck to you, not being able to get away from here would be annoying.
That's my favorite part is cuddling. So no I wouldn't be able to date someone who doesn't cuddle.
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