Could you date someone who doesn’t cuddle?

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I know I couldn’t it’s a must.

PeacefulRainDrop · Accepted Answer

I tried... its almost toxic for you both.. nothing wrong with us both as individuals just together we make a bad match.. he's still one of my best friends which is a gift that dating didn't ruin our relationship.. He tried cuddling and hated it.. I tried not cuddling and felt like he didn't want me.. he clearly did but we tried dating more than once thinking that we could beat it.. we fight a lot as friends we hardly fight.. he will always mean a lot to me..

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Absolutely! We would probably get along great, LOL

I'm not really a cuddler- I prefer wrestling, tackling, and... well not clinging to my partner. Even in the winter, I tend to be warm bodied, so if I'm touching someone too long, I get hot. And I certainly don't cuddle in the summer- it's hot, humid, and having someone clinging to me? NO.
It's okay in moderation, but if a guy told me he didn't want to cuddle, I certainly wouldn't mind.

evm987 · Accepted Answer

No way. I'm such a cuddler... I cuddle all my friends, for pete's sake. I can't imagine dating someone who didn't like cuddles. Also. No way could I share a bed with someone who didn't cuddle... he would have to put a line of pillows down the middle because I automatically drift toward the other person while I'm asleep

flower92 · Accepted Answer

No I love cuddling! It is so so nice and cozy! But I can't sleep sideways so it's just cuddling for a long time first and then sleeping with my face down and one leg on the side! Haha! my boyfriend though can sleep sideways while cuddling and doesn't like it when I stop our hugs to sleep with my face down

DevikaButts95 · Accepted Answer

Pfft, if we're dating they really don't got a choice with cuddling.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

My favorite part of every day is getting in bed, spooning with my girlfriend, and going to sleep with my arms around her. I really want that!

JohnAlaska43 · Accepted Answer

I agree cuddling is so comforting. Its a must I like to be close to the one I love.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Unless there is a very legit reason why he doesn't want to cuddle... But I don't think I want to.

Logorithim · Answer

Would be very hard. Would probably be a dealbreaker

Chikky · Answer

I will teach him how to by wrapping him up with my arms

StingRayxoxo · Answer

No. I need all the cuddles I can get.

Garyisboredlol · Answer

I need cuddles in a relationship. If your partner won't go near you during the day for a cuddle , then at bed time you won't feel like going near them and then they wonder why. Then they accuse you of not loving them. I wonder how many marriages broke up because of this

Secret6620 · Answer

Yes. I blame my mom. I hate being touched unless we are about to fuck. My mom didn't give hugs or touch us. So even now I can tell I picked up the trait

AnnasiaB · Answer

It would be hard to, but I would only stay if everything else was great. Not everyone us perfect, and not everyone is the lovey dovey kind, so we all have to be mindful of that. A guy or girl can show more that just cuddling for affection if they really care

InTimoreDei · Answer

I would first wonder what kind of individual they are. Don't know very many people that dislike cuddling. I know girls that hate sex and oral sex but I have never met anyone that dislikes cuddling.

SentientBrick · Answer

Nope. I'm a hugger and a cuddler. It would make me sad if I found out my SO doesn't like hugs and cuddles 😢

zed-789 · Answer

Nope. I’m always cold. I live off my significant other’s body heat or I would freeze to death lol

xxashiaskxx_ · Answer

If your not cuddling then what are you doing? There would be no point to the relationship.

sarahbear1750 · Answer

For me, dating someone who doesn’t cuddle is like not having oxygen-they’re both a must😂

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I have. In fact, nom 'cuddlers" are who I mostly attract. So much so that when I do attract one who cleaves, it still even now catches me off guard. I am not anti-cuddling. It just remains a foreign to me.

Saarr · Answer

Hmm, I don't feel like that would be as much fun...🤔😅

Levin · Answer

It's pretty the only reason why I seek a relationship: To cuddle the shit out of her :)

Miristheiss · Answer

Physical touch is one of my top love languages, it would probably become a problem if she didn't want to be close regularly.

ecfresh · Answer

Physical touch is one of my love languages so my answer is no. I would feel disconnected to them if the they want to touch me for some reason.

alexquestioned · Answer

Definetly, I can't stand having too much interaction without being self conscious so this would be an easy fix

genericname85 · Answer

as with everything to live, the balance is important. not cuddling at all would be a deal breaker but her being stuck to you, not being able to get away from here would be annoying.

loyaltrail · Answer

That's my favorite part is cuddling. So no I wouldn't be able to date someone who doesn't cuddle.

DeviloftheValleys · Answer

No. Sex, I could live without. Cuddles, no. I need them.

MemeSupreme · Answer

Fuck that I don't want to end up dating a psychopath lol

TonyBologna25 · Answer

After sex is the only time i’ll “cuddle” and even then, it’s more of the girl just resting her face on my chest as I just lay there groping her ass baha

luvstoned4him · Answer

Won't work out  Seeing that I am a pretty touchy person.

Angel_Devil · Answer

I love cuddling, so it would just feel pointless being with them if they don't like to hold me at shit... idek

StephenCF · Answer

Nope. I date in hopes of all and any forms of intimacy. Anyone who doesn’t want a cuddle can just be my friend, but never a partner

Justacatlady · Answer

Hell yeah! I don’t like to cuddle often so if someone wasn’t into it that would be fine

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, i like a girl who likes cuddling , i couldn't be with a girl who doesn't like cuddling.

No_Archons · Answer

If she was amazing jn every other way w/e but it's pre high up on my list of things i want in a girl so i wudnt give it up easily

crazy8000 · Answer

For just dating a few times. sure. For more (serious and become physical sexual) she are already in friendzone.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Fuck no! Might as well say she won't have sex too. Cuddles are absolutely mandatory.

Adrian12345 · Answer

Yes. Dating should be where we take it slow. Cuddling often leads to other things, things we maybe shouldn't do while dating. Cos sometimes those other things are an unplanned pregnancy, STD's.

MLGbreezy · Answer

I don't know it's something I'd love to try but I've never had a girlfriend

scotty01 · Answer

To me that is a big deal breaker with me but if she can do it of a night in bed and spoon as well as cuddle I’ll accept that. But she has to kiss me and aleast day I love you to meis another deal breaker to me.

I_M_M · Answer

Hell no, I need my daily cuddles

AlienChickk · Answer

I couldn’t, I’m not a very touchy person in general, and even I like to cuddle the person I’m dating.

Anonymous · Answer

well, I can date somebody even if he's phobia of touch, so I guess sure. Emotions matter to me more than anything!

sasukeuchiha7 · Answer

I'm not the most cuddly person so I don't care if she cuddles or not.

Lance1965 · Answer

It is unlikely. Someone who never wants to cuddle would seem kind of cold to me.

MrConceptkitten · Answer

Those are the worst people. Cuddling and sex are the greatest. *Unless they never give you space. That sucks*

theNumber7 · Answer

No. I don't think you're in a relationship if you don't

Mymy2458 · Answer

I'd prefer it actually. 😔 I'm not a touchy feely person that needs physical contact to ensure my partner loves me.

Smf1989 · Answer

i did and I hated it i want someone who wants to cuddle

JerryPaggart · Answer

Surely not. What affection can you give and get from someone that doesn't have it in their repertoire? It's a no for me. I will pass.

Dlg1979 · Answer

I can't remember what that was like, but my new guy always cuddles after sex and I love it.

Rred-Wolf · Answer

What kind of person doesn't cuddle ? 😱

dtweed96 · Answer

In dates sure why not while in a relationship that feels necessary

Isten · Answer

No way in hell, I need all the attention!

Sophie_2301 · Answer

No, I couldn’t. I’m just really affectionate.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not that big on cuddling myself. So I would rather someone who isn't very interested in it either.

Elliegirl · Answer

No way. I love cuddling way too much.

PrincessGrail · Answer

No. Defo not.

Felinegirl · Answer

I couldn't, we would not be compatible

Anonymous · Answer

Very unlikely. I want someone healthy.

rjroy3 · Answer

I'm pretty big on touch, so that's a no from me.

Anonymous · Answer

Could you date someone who only wants to have sex once a month?

beebella · Answer

Of course not. I like cuddles.

Bandit74 · Answer

Maybe, but it would definitely be disappointing.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, cuddling takes too much effort.  All I need is a nod.

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