Not worth the paper they are written on. The judge can (and will) overrule them.
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Eh, I can see why celebrities and like super rich people get them. But even still, I feel like deep down the person must know it the marriage won’t last... otherwise they wouldn’t worry about getting that
So deep down you know the plain will crash so you wear your seat belt? Why is marriage romantic, while signing a document saying you love them and aren't after their money isn't?
Hope for the best but prepare for the worst I always say.
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I'm not entirely against it. I feel like a person's inheritance and past earnings should be their own, but maybe what they earned together can be split
That's basically what a prenup is minus the inheritance part if it occurs while they are married. But how is it fair if a guy makes over 100, 000, while the girl makes 40, 000 and at the end of the relationship he has to pay her half of all he earned while with her in addition to alimony payments, possibly for the rest of his life. No one should be entitled to half, and alimony shouldn't be given for more than a few years and it shouldn't be to sustain the same standard of living. If you can't get on your own dam feet after a few years after marriage that is your own dam fault.
@nathanp97 I think the alimony or splitting things should only happen if a spouse was a homemaker and sacrificed their career for the sake of the family. Sometimes alimony is abused though
Sometimes? I'd say most. i think if the women chooses to stay at home against what the man wants then she shouldn't be entitled to much. If the man wants her to than everything should be split. Being a homemaker means sacrificing your career, but being married to one means you sacrifice time with the kids so she can have more. I find it funny how homemakers often get more custody of the kids and money from the man, while the man doesn't get back what he lost by being the breadwinner for the family. If she wants the money he should be able to get the kids more if he wants it.
Financial struggles are your own fault 🤦♀️ Everyone in America has the opportunity to go to school and get an education. And I think I’ll do just fine thank you very much ya broke ass nigga 😂 @milantb1
Bitch I AM rich 😂 and I’m not gonna be in a relationship with some loser that has less money than my own family grew up in who’s just gonna drag me and my gene pool down sorry not sorry.
I was being sarcastic because in your statement you're say the general character of a woman today is a problem. I'd agree with some women but not all. I for one think a prenup is a good thing. I would never get that far because I will never get legally married. With 50% ending in divorce it's like playing Russian roulette. You pay money to get married just to have a 50% chance of growing apart then have an expensive nasty divorce to hate each other over. The state is the one benefitting from it. And I also believe fathers deserve more rights to their kids. All I'm saying is don't demonize all of us women because of a few feminazis that only fight for their rights instead of rights men and women should have. Now maybe I'm wrong. Maybe most women don't think like me. But I'd like to believe most want what's fair. Still don't put us all in the same category.
@PinkMichae I think it is fair to draw the general conclusion that marriage is a risky proposition for anyone given that 50% end in divorce. Considering roughly 80% of divorces are filed by women, I think it is also fair to draw some general conclusions about women's character in the context of divorce.
That could easily just mean that 80% of men really hurt the women. So unless you have the list of why 80% of women filed, you're simply making assumptions.
Should I judge the general man's character because 80% of women of women had to divorce the man they thought they would spend their life with? They must have been cheaters, liars, and/or abusers. I could make that assumption but I'm the type of person who judges a situation based on all the facts. Not half the facts and I just fill in the blanks.
@PinkMichae I have no doubt that men are to blame in many divorce cases. But the fact is women (still) have a lot more to gain in divorce than men do, and it would be silly to not recognize the role that plays in the number of divorces and the fact that women file most of them. Hopefully you are honest enough to see that.
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My country doesn't have fucked up a divorce laws so no need for a prenup...
Women call for divorce 70% of the time, so I don't think it's a bad idea to be safe about it.
Not worth the paper they are written on. The judge can (and will) overrule them.
Eh, I can see why celebrities and like super rich people get them. But even still, I feel like deep down the person must know it the marriage won’t last... otherwise they wouldn’t worry about getting that
So deep down you know the plain will crash so you wear your seat belt? Why is marriage romantic, while signing a document saying you love them and aren't after their money isn't?
If you have something to protect, as in a large net worth, you would be nuts not to. And anyone that would object is a giant red flag. End of story.
Even the best written ones can be summarily set aside by a judge.
Depending on the marriage arrangement, It can be a very good idea
most important thing if you are smart i get $10,000 spousal supplement monthly because i demand a prenup
We should work to make marriage laws fairer for men but it's a must if you are getting married before that.
I’m against it and won’t marry a man who asked me for one. I’d dump him
Hope for the best but prepare for the worst I always say.
I'm not entirely against it. I feel like a person's inheritance and past earnings should be their own, but maybe what they earned together can be split
That's basically what a prenup is minus the inheritance part if it occurs while they are married. But how is it fair if a guy makes over 100, 000, while the girl makes 40, 000 and at the end of the relationship he has to pay her half of all he earned while with her in addition to alimony payments, possibly for the rest of his life. No one should be entitled to half, and alimony shouldn't be given for more than a few years and it shouldn't be to sustain the same standard of living. If you can't get on your own dam feet after a few years after marriage that is your own dam fault.
@nathanp97 I think the alimony or splitting things should only happen if a spouse was a homemaker and sacrificed their career for the sake of the family. Sometimes alimony is abused though
Sometimes? I'd say most. i think if the women chooses to stay at home against what the man wants then she shouldn't be entitled to much. If the man wants her to than everything should be split. Being a homemaker means sacrificing your career, but being married to one means you sacrifice time with the kids so she can have more. I find it funny how homemakers often get more custody of the kids and money from the man, while the man doesn't get back what he lost by being the breadwinner for the family. If she wants the money he should be able to get the kids more if he wants it.
I don’t care about it tbh.
You have to trust your partner. My opinion.
I believe that the only ones who are entitled to my shit after we split apart are the people I decide to put in my will.
It only makes sense if the person is ACTUALLY rich that gets it.. not for some broke ass niggas tho
lol it matters for the broke as niggas the most, how else do they stop being broke ass niggas?
Broke ass niggas downvoting my comment typical 😂
Its ok i doubt you will ever get married calling people with financial struggles broke ass niggas
Financial struggles are your own fault 🤦♀️ Everyone in America has the opportunity to go to school and get an education. And I think I’ll do just fine thank you very much ya broke ass nigga 😂 @milantb1
You? The fact that you're already looking for a rich man at your age shows me you won't be fine. Unless you such dick for money aka marry a rich guy
Bitch I AM rich 😂 and I’m not gonna be in a relationship with some loser that has less money than my own family grew up in who’s just gonna drag me and my gene pool down sorry not sorry.
@BeHappy1985 finally a man that gets it 🙌
Oh I get it https://youtu.be/8QXB0PEUqXQ
Lmaoo
I don’t see the harm in doing it. Although the partner might take it the wrong way as if to say that I don’t trust her which would be very wrong.
Given that women can become vengeful shits who will try anything and claim anything, it's worth getting.
A man would be crazy to get married without one in today's political and social climate, and with the general character of today's women.
You're so right about our character. We aren't as dumb as we use to be.😝
@PinkMichae The problem has nothing to do with whether women are smart or dumb.
I was being sarcastic because in your statement you're say the general character of a woman today is a problem. I'd agree with some women but not all. I for one think a prenup is a good thing. I would never get that far because I will never get legally married. With 50% ending in divorce it's like playing Russian roulette. You pay money to get married just to have a 50% chance of growing apart then have an expensive nasty divorce to hate each other over. The state is the one benefitting from it. And I also believe fathers deserve more rights to their kids. All I'm saying is don't demonize all of us women because of a few feminazis that only fight for their rights instead of rights men and women should have. Now maybe I'm wrong. Maybe most women don't think like me. But I'd like to believe most want what's fair. Still don't put us all in the same category.
@PinkMichae I think it is fair to draw the general conclusion that marriage is a risky proposition for anyone given that 50% end in divorce. Considering roughly 80% of divorces are filed by women, I think it is also fair to draw some general conclusions about women's character in the context of divorce.
That could easily just mean that 80% of men really hurt the women. So unless you have the list of why 80% of women filed, you're simply making assumptions.
Should I judge the general man's character because 80% of women of women had to divorce the man they thought they would spend their life with? They must have been cheaters, liars, and/or abusers. I could make that assumption but I'm the type of person who judges a situation based on all the facts. Not half the facts and I just fill in the blanks.
@PinkMichae I have no doubt that men are to blame in many divorce cases. But the fact is women (still) have a lot more to gain in divorce than men do, and it would be silly to not recognize the role that plays in the number of divorces and the fact that women file most of them. Hopefully you are honest enough to see that.
I don't deny that some laws aren't fair to men. I guess we'll leave it at that.
Get one. It saved me a tremendous amount of pain when I got divorced.
If you are that guy from Amazon, maybe I would think of one...