Is it wrong that I told my boyfriend to choose between me and his best friend who is a woman?

It makes me uncomfortable and it’s one of the reasons I broke up with him actually. I honestly think that when we were together, he actually was closer with her emotionally. I felt like I’d have to compete with her so I ended things. He’s been texting me and calling me and wants me back so I told him if he wants me back he needs to stop hanging out with her. We got into an argument over text and when I said that he never replied.
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9 d
Why do people come on here and automatically assume shit that was not specifically stated. He has not “known her longer” than me. Quite the opposite actually.
9 d
Also I do not and would never have a male best friend so your argument of, “well how would you feel if you had a male best friend..” doesn’t work because that scenario would never apply to me. You know when it would? If the “male best friend” were my boyfriend.
Is it wrong that I told my boyfriend to choose between me and his best friend who is a woman?
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