It makes me uncomfortable and it’s one of the reasons I broke up with him actually. I honestly think that when we were together, he actually was closer with her emotionally. I felt like I’d have to compete with her so I ended things. He’s been texting me and calling me and wants me back so I told him if he wants me back he needs to stop hanging out with her. We got into an argument over text and when I said that he never replied.
Why do people come on here and automatically assume shit that was not specifically stated. He has not “known her longer” than me. Quite the opposite actually.
Also I do not and would never have a male best friend so your argument of, “well how would you feel if you had a male best friend..” doesn’t work because that scenario would never apply to me. You know when it would? If the “male best friend” were my boyfriend.