Is it wrong that I told my boyfriend to choose between me and his best friend who is a woman? (Page 3)
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Was. That Quentin Tarantino dressed as a woman?
lmfao!!
It's not wrong. It wasn't working for you. Understandable -- if he's ditching you to be with her, is he really with you?
I think your problem is jealousy and I think your insecure
He having a girl best friend isn't the problem
If they haven't done anything romantic or shown signs of attraction I dont see why he would have to break up their friendship for you.
Yes. They were longer friends than you and him are together. It's disrespectful to forbit him contact. He is not your property he is it own person.
No they weren’t.
Why are you assuming things? @LuWe22 . Asker NEVER said he knew her prior.
If you are this insecure It's best if you stay away from him. Just because she is a women does not mean that he wants her to be than more of a friend. Women and Men can have strictly platonic relationship.
When the other woman becomes more important to him emotionally during their relationship, it becomes inappropriate. ESPECIALLY when he sought that friendship out while dating Asker.
doesn't excuse you assuming shit, by the way. But piss poor attempt to cover your own ass.
She never stated how long they were together and when he and she had an friendship. Are you here Personal Guard? Do you know Asker or why are you defending her? She did not give us much Infos. They broke up so it's her loss. Giving rules is low and not get right.
Hypocritical much? YOU didn't know that either- but still assumed it, against Askers favor. And I did know, as I read all the comments.
Are you against opposite gender friendships? Why can't he make female friends while in a relationship? Why is that inappropriate to have a female friend and share emotion with her? I just don't understand what is wrong with that.
It’s inappropriate when it supersedes your romantic relationship and becomes priority to your girlfriend
@Valiant grow up if you dont like her opunuon because your self esteem is so low that you feel the need to troll other accounts and use a fake profile pic then just leave 😩🤣.. grow tf up alread
@LuWe22 valiant is insecure
*opinion
Valiant is insecure with a fake profile pic. so she will never understand. the funny thing is the pic she's using is my Instagram friend😩🤦🏼♀️
I do believe that friendship is very important and you can make compromise. You can spend time with your girlfriend but you also should time with friends.
I absolutely agree. i have Male friends from years ago and if we really wanted to be together we would have. he has a girlfriend and she's confident enough to know that he
Loves her and there is nothing more than a friend ship between him and i
I never had an issue with my boyfriends having lady friends. im secure with me. Valiant self esteem is low hints the fake profile pic
@brittslitt excuse me bitch? You’re just outright lying. This picture is me. Why don’t you link your friends Instagram, hmm? Rather convenient I’d be using YOUR friends. I’m flattered that you find me so attractive you think I’m a catfish.
You must be referring to your mother dear.🤣
You're catfishing hun. The girl follows me and if you like I will gladly post the link to her profile here and inform her someone is using her pic which is fraud
@brittslitt Please do, as that photo is me. I could change it to 200 photos of the same woman, as the woman is me. Just because you’re upset because of our previous encounters, and because I’m more attractive than you, doesn’t mean you have to be a bitch.
(Yes, I know you use an Australian model as your profile picture and that it’s not you)
Surrrreee gurl.. I am not Australian 🤣🤣🤣🤣.. take Lauren pick down.. I don't know why you're so insecure
@brittslitt Link the Instagram where my photos apparently are. You’re all talk but can’t back your words up.
Girl bye 🤣🤣 u should know you stole her pic
@brittslitt LMAO. Obviously I didn’t, since you kept threatening to link the Instagram but as I called you on your bullshit you can’t. Shut the fuck up
Girl bye the lies.
😩😩insecurity must friends at its finest
@brittslitt Why won’t you link this supposed Instagram account? If it’s “your friend” and I “stole the photo” why not prove if
You already have her page thief. That is how you got her picture. you are a real weirdo and insecure seek therapy. when you go as far as stealing someone else's picture you are not happy with yourself. Get help
Again bye and you're blocked
Take a live picture right now then holding up a sign with todays date. you can't because that is not u
You are mentally ill
@brittslitt lol you’re the one with the fake pictures. Projecting much?
@asker you're an insecure anon whose boyfriend is screwing his friend🤣😩take several seats and worry about solving your beloved issues
You're getting played much? ugly much? insecure much?😩😩
@brittslitt Funny that you can't link the Instagram page😂Maybe because it doesn’t exist? Shut the fuck up with YOUR fake Instagram pictures from a model 😂😂 A famous one too, that’s definitely not you based on language and age. You’re pathetic. I don’t have to prove myself to you with some sign and date, if you won’t simply link an Instagram to me
That's what I thought. you won't post a picture with todays date. the end
@brittslitt Link me the Instagram honey.
😩🤦🏼♀️🤣so sad
Link you? tuh it's in my mytake about you🤣🤣.
They seem to agree you stole her pic. work on yourself esteem you angry stalker weirdo. if you're not going to post a pic up with todays date i dont want to hear it. fraud
@brittslitt why don’t you link the MyTake as well then? Or are you scared
And why would I care if you’re “not gonna hear it”😂You’re just some pathetic troll whose fun to mess with. Why would I care if some bitch on GaG is openly lying? If you weren’t, you’d link the Instagram. Your story is so see through it’s laughable. Just accept the fact I’m attractive. I certainly get the benefits of it.
You may not like it if he has a female friend, and I understand it, but giving ultimatums and making someone choose is just lame and you're most likely to end up losing. You just end things without an ultimatum if things are wrong.
I think he deserves someone, who lets him to have friends. Change your attitude before dating anyone.
Change yours- everyone has the right to their feelings.
I let them have friends who respect boundaries.
@Valiant of course everyone has a right to their feelings, no one has a right to impose their feelings or will on others in the form of ultimatums.. there is the difference, you would do well to recognize that.
@worldscolide this was not an ultimatum? The hell? She dumped him prior to this. It’s simply her condition for getting back together with him.
@VaIiant irrelevant. She is posing an "Its me or your friend" Kind of situation. If someone did that to me honestly that person is not worth my time. Making someone choose is one of the most manipulative disgusting and evil things a person can do. i say he dodged a bullet..
@worldscolide you’re missing the point. She’s not forcing him to choose LOL. She won’t get back with him if he’s still with the same reason they broke up. So what if it’s tOxic? They’re not dating.
It depends don’t give him an ultimatum but sometimes people are just closer to others
Just find a boyfriend that doesn't have super close female friends then.. obvs its not gonna work for you cause you dont trust him and/or you're insecure.
He might like her
He swears he doesn’t but idc. I think their relationship is inappropriate. It would be fine if he wanted to remain single but once you wanna be serious with a woman, you need to back off from others. I don’t get why people have such a problem with this
If she has a boyfriend, it might be ok. You guys could double date.
She’s single. She knows more about his life than I do. Has been to his work more than I have
That worries me
He should be less intimate with her
It disgusts me, honestly. To the point where I’m thinking, “why does he even want to be with me?”
Maybes and insecurities are not a good basis to make relationship choices. Both have more to do with fear and supposition than actions and events.
Nothing wrong with a guy having female friends, but you should be first in his life.
No you did the right thing. Guys and girls can’t be just friends. I won’t date a guy who has female friends.
Yes, it's wrong. Stop being possessive, let your partner live and breathe. You are the one lacking trust so the problem is YOURS, it is YOUR responsibility to fix that.
forget taking him back if be has commitment problems
He's trying to get you back? That's So disappointing from him. 🙄
He should man up and move on.
No, it's not. You set your boundaries and there's nothing wrong with that.
It looks like he dumped you for that woman, given the fact that he didn't message you back.
But what you did was wrong somehow, too much jealousy.
Nope
You have every right to screw up your relationship with him
You should get either a tighter fanny (arse) or let some sand out of your vagina
You're insecure overall and because his friend looks better than you.
How long ago was this?
How long since I broke up w him?
It was today that we were texting and I told him to stop hanging out with her if he wants me back
It's so annoying when someone answers a question with a question.
@Chanel1981 you should know better, Guru
Perhaps he's thinking it over, I would give it a little more time but not too much
@Soft4u get a life
Next time if there is a next time just answer the question with your opinion not with a question.
Set an example Guru/
@Soft4u put on some clothes in your picture and shut the fuck up
No it is not wrong.
Thank yoj