Should guys be HONEST when their girlfriend/wife asks him if she's getting FATTER? (Page 2)

[A-man-22]

This is a case I'd like the world to change.

If your S. O mentions this they often aren't insulting you , they are often just concerned for you.

I'd rather people take it this way than think it's an insult or they are lying.

[Keyarose]

Yes and then say something like ''I love you no matter how you look.'' so that sh won't feel so sad

[GlitterDragon]

Yes. If I’m asking for your opinion, I want the truth. Not a lie to make me feel netter.

[GlitterDragon]

Better*

[Plastic-Me]

I think you a man could say, "You've gained some but you still look good" or "yes but it's sexy".

[Asker]

What if he doesn't think it's sexy?

[andreasderjuengere]

'He' should only feel obliged to use these euphemisms, if 'he' indeed believes that he believes it.

[Plastic-Me]

If he doesn't think that he shouldn't say it. But what I'm saying is that there is a way to tell a women that she's gained weight without it being harsh.

[xKatAttackx]

Yes
If you ask for it, it's what you will get. They set themselves up if they go nuclear over the truth.

[AngyLlama]

He should be honest, but also he should tell her with kindness

[Lauren-green]

We ask for a reason, because we want an honest answer. Why else would we be asking?

[Jackblue]

emotional support

[clampfan101]

Honest, but not childishly blunt about it. It should be said as kindly as possible, and with the motive being concern for her health as apposed to his desire in her looks.

[loveslongnails]

She already knows she is or she wouldn't ask. For some convoluted reason, she wants to think that if he tells her "no", she didn't "really" have trouble getting into those jeans.

[TheFlak38]

if she's too dumb to see that there is something wrong with her body then yes let's be honest.
you're a fat cunt. Put down the fork and do something about it.

[Anonymous]

If you're losing attraction for each other due to weight gain, talk it out with each other. If she gained like 5lbs then I don't think you should immediately point that out but if she's starting to put her health at risk then definitely tell her.

[AshleyMadison00]

Thick is the word with a compliment or suggest both start working out together if she's really getting overly big

[Cybernizer]

I mean.. If she really has put on that much weight I will let her know about the hippo she has become.

[genericname85]

She'll be mad either way. What she is saying is that she doesn't like how she looks and whatever you say, you will not make it better.

[nicks939s]

That is dangerous, if she asks is she getting fat program a default answer of "no babe your as sexy as ever" your get points and orgasms 👌

[Jaydon45]

never tell anybody they are fat, you know if youve put on some weight and you dnt need people pointing it out.

[CuriousForever]

As long as I ask and he never says it in a demeaning way I will only appreciate the truth.

[AcidT0y]

There is no right answer. If you say yes you're a cunt. If you say no you're a liar. It's a trap, you have to dodge the question.

[Cruizer]

Nah you talk about how you're getting fat then exercise heaps. Then ask for support. If they don't come with you then they're not worth it anyway.

[sidhesh]

Because she's surly dependent on ur opinion, she should be told in different way to understand the truth