I yelled at my girlfriend and regret it?

[Anonymous]

She’s so nice and caring and comforting and loving to me, sometimes it gets suffocating.

When im in a bad mood and being quiet she pushes to get the answer out of me when 99% of the time I don’t know why I’m just ina bad mood. She comforts me anyway even though I hate the comfort because it makes me more angry.

I was a feeling a bit moody today and I only saw her for a little bit at a lunch date during our breaks, I don’t like being a dishwasher it’s the worst, so I told her this and she tried to comfort me again.

i raised my voice and just yelled “I know, stop being so fucking comforting” and I said some other stuff I didn’t mean then left. She looked like she was about to cry but I still just left.

i feel so bad about it, not once in our relationship has she been difficult or mean to me but fuck I feel terrible for treating my sweet girlfriend like that, she’s always buying me gifts and is excited to see me and is always affectionate, now she won’t return my texts.

what do I do?

[Anonymous]

You need to tell your girlfriend to give you space you shouldn’t have yelled so apologize don’t be a pussy about it just say “ I apologize for yelling” but that’s it she needs to learn to give you space when you are in a bad mood. Women don’t Understand guys like space when we are upset they think we would want what they want but men and women are different

[MotoMoto]

Agreed

[Anonymous]

If her caring personality irritates you so much, man up and tell her the relationship isn’t working out. Be an adult and let her know. Tell her, you appreciate her as a person but she’s not the right woman for you. Don’t stay with her, because you feel bad only to snap at her every time her kindness gets to be too much or your mood is shifting.

[Ally247]

I think you need to have a sit down and just explain everything you said in this post. Communication is the most important thing. To her, she just sees you upset and wants to help. You're just bottling up how you feel. To make the situation better, just converse.