I don't know if my girlfriend trusts me too much or she just doesn't care?

[Anonymous]

She allows me to go on boys night outs, she’s cool with me being friends with other girls, she’s fine with me drinking. We almost never fight. When we have disagreements it doesn't end in big dramas and fights. She’s calm which i thought was nice but she’s too calms that it seems she doesn't give a crap.

We now just started being in an ldr. I thought she’d be more strict or more jealous or something, anything.. but she isn't.

I just feel like she doesn't care enough. She says she trusts me but it just feels like she’s fine if i ever play around.

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Guess in other words all my friends gfs are at least a bit possessive and my girlfriend is not

[hello2020]

I think she trust you, you should ask her once - straightforwardly. She seems to be having a mature mindset and a cool personality. From my perspective and real behaviors in a relationship, I never questioned or had any concerns over my ex-boyfriends in my past relationships about where he's going/whom he's meeting, etc... unless he casually updated me these things and all the times I always liked: okay, it's fine, thanks for letting me know. That's it. I expect him to do the same to me out of trust and respect.

A key in relationship is to be honest to each other and be yourself. Ask her and talk about things you feel uncertain.

[Nattywest30]

She trusts you wholeheartedly, you shouldn’t break her trust, have a good relationship!!!

[slatyb]

You need to get over this feeling. Trustworthy people are trusting. Untrustworthy people are not. Your girlfriend trusts you because she would never cheat on you and assumes you feel the same. Her lack of concern doesn't mean that she doesn't care, it just means that she doesn't worry about it. This is a sign of emotional maturity. Be happy.

[Vaelthor]

Don't complain dude, you're a lucky one! Enjoy the freedom and give her the same, it's just trust.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she just has a lot of self-confidence and she trusts you. I've been confident enough in most of my relationships to trust that my guy wouldn't cheat on me, and if he ever did, he didn't deserve me anyway.

[Anonymous]

Wow! Self sabotaging much? Chill out and enjoy the fortunate good things you have! Does you have an anxious attachment style?

[Opinion Owner]

I mean yeah, a little jealousy is good. But are you sure you’re not being overly anxious? Is everything else between you good?

[Onlyoneboy]

May be it is about her character or maybe she really doesn't care