Women! What do you do when your boyfriend feels sad?

[Unit1]

And just a few tears leak from his eyes but he's not sobbing.

[Amy_Theo]

I'd probably do some kind of fun activity that we both like together. Be it gaming, driving around, cooking, painting or just playing with pets. Anything that I'm sure will help his emotional state. Once he seems to be in a better position, I'd probably ask him if he wants to talk about whatever is bothering him. The rest is up to him. I for one like to keep my thoughts to myself when I'm distressed so if he requests the same, I wouldn't push it. There's only one thing I'd never do and that is to leave him alone for his thoughts to plague him. No matter what he says or how much he begs me to, I won't leave his side. I don't even mind sitting next to him without saying or doing anything. Sometimes it helps a person if there's someone who's there. The whole idea of "I'm here if you need me", just a lot more physically closer.

[MrPickles13]

You are right sometimes just having someone by your side even if they dont talk is really helpful.

[SweedyPie]

Dry his eyes with my hands, Sit on his lap facing him, Give him a long hug telling him everything will be okay. After a while and he seems fine, of course I'll be my usual silly self an make him laugh.

Depending on his mood I'll either kiss him all over his neck and make him hard and well :) :) ;) make him cum in my mouth. Or if he wasn't in the mood for that, make something nice for him to eat.

Meh. Men need to know it's human to be emotional. Society puts too much pressure on them to "suck it up".

(this was strictly theoretical as I'm single hahaha)

[Unit1]

This is so sweet to no end 😍
I think you deserve a very good boyfriend.

[SweedyPie]

Thank you! Well, if the universe agrees with ya it will happen maybe. Lol.

[Unit1]

We will see... Or maybe we won't 🤔🤷
Rest assured i need a nice girlfriend ☺💭

[SweedyPie]

Lol yes, and you deserve a good woman, in my opinion

[Unit1]

Thank you, thank you, kind lady *blush* ☺☺☺

[fauchelevent]

Whenever he's sad, I usually ask if he wants to talk about it. Most of the time, he doesn't, sometimes he does. Either way, it usually means we either curl up together and put something distracting on the TV and he'll let me hold him for a bit or he'll put his head on my lap and settle down for a bit or we'll go curl up in bed and just cuddle for a bit.

[angelmochii]

Hold him tightly and tell him it’s okay to let it out. I’d rather him show me his emotions than hide it. If we’re going to be in a relationship then we need to trust each other with something as basic as normal human emotions.

[ivysandy]

Hold him in my arms and cuddle him then maybe later we can discuss what's bothering him

[Unit1]

This is so sweet 💕

[AlphaGhost]

I know Ladies will try to feed you a lot of non-sense like "talk it out" which they try for a minute but the thing that really matters !
Oh Baby... Here goes her Panties (remove her panties) and the man will call it his lucky DAY.

[Unit1]

Very funny!

[souEu]

Actually, this man is telling you the hole truth. If I’m sad, the best thing my girl can do... is make me happy.
Oh, believe me, nothing works better than unexpected sex. ❤️❤️❤️

[Unit1]

@souEu women can start seeing this as a manipulation move from us when they start initiating sex every time we are sad.

[AlphaGhost]

DuDe exactly what rock you have been living under?
It may not be as common as I mentioned but 90% of time the end result is exactly that... you don't have to worry about ladies giving it cuz almost every man knows power of her VAGINA weapon.

[Unit1]

I've been under several rocks. Where do i start?
I've been living under the rock called overloaded with studies.
Also under the rock called work.
And my most attached rock is called depression and another one is called social alienation.
Oh and don't forget about poverty and being broke.

Lots of rocks. And no women to be found in any of these.

As i said, in no way do i want to manipulate women because that's just evil. If this starts happening, we'll drive men back to being emotionless robots shortly after women start complaining, that when we cry we actually manipulate women into sex.

[AlphaGhost]

Dude everybody have to deal with "educational system stress" and I don't want to manipulate woman either if they stop doing it to me.

[Unit1]

Not everybody.
Many are class skippers, dropouts or don't even study at all.
Some of Those, who are class skippers in my previous group looked at me like I'm an alien when i didn't do X or Y because i was making sure i get the best grades and graduated with honors.

[curiousvirgin55]

Let him know your there for him

[SydneySentinel]

I want to comfort him. Whatever he needed.

[Ria23]

Be there for him tell him that it is ok to be sad, give him loads of hugs and kisses, all in all just be there for him, he will appreciate once he is out of the sad state, and sometimes he will need some space, don't hesitate if you feel he needs some.

[Anonymous]

I don't have a boyfriend and haven't in awhile, but I'd probably hug him and ask him what's wrong, and just listen and be there with him.

[CubsterShura]

Talk it out. And something else depending on whatever I knew can make him feel better.

[Unit1]

Like interrogate him or how do you "talk him out"?

[CubsterShura]

Talk about what's bothering him. I'd interrogate if something was bothering me instead 😂

[alice55]

Never had a boyfriend but I would surely just sit next to him doing nothing cause I'm awkward in those kind of situation I don't know what to do or say

[SexyAshh]

Give him a bj

Put his hand on my boob/ass

Role play

[souEu]

Amen to that!!! ❤️❤️

[LonewolfMeme]

I've tried everything I know but in reality there's no way I can help by he needs a professional and it's hard to get one it seems but he's not my boyfriend technically.

[Anonymous]

Ask if his alright, ask what happened, try to cheer him up, watch a silly movie, buy food, cuddle, etc..

[Keyarose]

I would try to make him feel happy. So things with him that makes him happy.

[souEu]

Miss, you’re all a man wants! ❤️❤️❤️

[AngelLily]

I would ask him what's wrong and see if I can't help/fix it.

[Texaskid1]

I am not a women. But if I were and I had a boyfriend who was sad...

I would tickle his balls.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the context. First: hug. Second: ask/talk. Third: do whatever it takes to ease the pain, or shoulder it alongside him.

[AshleyMadison00]

Try to cheer him up depends or let him come to me when ready make sure to Express I'm here men take things hard sometimes

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I don't have a boyfriend but for my girlfriend, forehead kiss and head pat.

[ninjafemme]

I say good, good for you fucking bastard.
That's what cheaters get.

[devilman666]

Maybe just dont date cheaters? Or are you saying that only cheaters feel sad? I am a little confused.

[Mikey_Ramone]

I assume this only for assholes but there's still plenty of good men out there.

[stardust101]

I’d have to ask who died? Or... what the hell did you do? Because face it, men don’t wear their emotions on their sleeves like that unless it’s for a good reason

[devilman666]

And that's the mentality that keeps men from wearing such emotions on their sleeve. We are expected not to cry so many men suppress the urge to cry unless they are completely alone.

[devilman666]

If you need evidence then just look at the male comments on this question.

[stardust101]

@devilman666 I don’t like your username

[devilman666]

@stardust101 well I dont like you, so that makes us even.

[Unit1]

@devilman666 ditto!

[wittymilf]

Just ask if there’s anything I can do

[Warmapplecrumble]

Hug him and stroke his hair

[Anonymous]

They sleep with another guy or at least start start sexting someone else

[JackofSpades]

Not necessarily. If you were to loose your entire family in some horrible accident a tear or two may be forgivable.

[ClosetHoe]

Talk to him and comfort him.

[mermaidia_lol]

Just hold him and not say anything.

[Anonymous]

Ask him what’s wrong and give him a massage

[Unit1]

This is sweet 💕

[Anonymous]

Give him a kiss attack all over his face or cuddle

[AmandaYVR]

Of course.

[Taylor_C]

I would leave him alone

[Agem123]

I would hug him and tell him I'm here for him.

[DovahKittyLady]

Ask him what happened.

[cirno]

Time for a big hug!