Talk to him about how it makes you feel. If he's dismissive then that's what you can expect for the rest of the relationship. Cut the cord and move on if he continues to remain the same even after communicating to him how you feel.
Sounds like my father , did you try and talk to him? You could talk and see the outcome but tbh my mom did with my father and he still hasn't changed I personally doubt people change unless something traumatic happens
UPDATE: Yes you saif that, but its quite simple, your SO is supposed to make you feel good. Its literally the basis for a good relationship, and he isn't.
You could ofc "work on it" (the relationship) by trying to talk about it with him but the things is just that one thing is actually going to take several tries/talk to balance out, and you'll also be knowing that he's modifying he's behaviour right from the start of the relationship. It practically is the start cause even though its 2 months in id say it hasn't even started since he's not making you feel good. Sex aside ofc, as that just by itself isn't a mark of a relationship. So the question then is wtf work on something thats bad from the start? You can either work on a "relationship" that starts out that bad, or you can do what most gals ime do, check out the next guy in line. Chances are extremely high hell start out by making you feel good
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Talk to him about how it makes you feel. If he's dismissive then that's what you can expect for the rest of the relationship. Cut the cord and move on if he continues to remain the same even after communicating to him how you feel.
Seems like he has high standards and not accepting you for You and not acknowledging that you are sufficient
Dump him. There's something wrong with him. Sounds like he needs to fix himself.
Damn buying a new car is a dumb move, thats not wanting you to be better, thats wanting you to LOOK better.
Should you break up with him you ask? Well that would be a yes. As in yes of course now!!! Out with the trash.
Sounds like my father , did you try and talk to him? You could talk and see the outcome but tbh my mom did with my father and he still hasn't changed I personally doubt people change unless something traumatic happens
Firstly talk to her about it and let him know you are who you are and don't have to change in order for him to like you.
You need to talk to him about how far he's pushing You, probably wants what's best but not realising how much he's pushing You?
Don't force yourself to be in a relationship you aren't happy in, but if you can work it out in some way, try that.
If you explain to him how you're feeling and he doesn't stop then yes you should.
Yeah you should break up with him. These are red flags, end it before it gets worse; he sounds controlling.
If nothing else he's constantly acting like he's above you. Who likes that?
UPDATE: Yes you saif that, but its quite simple, your SO is supposed to make you feel good. Its literally the basis for a good relationship, and he isn't.
You could ofc "work on it" (the relationship) by trying to talk about it with him but the things is just that one thing is actually going to take several tries/talk to balance out, and you'll also be knowing that he's modifying he's behaviour right from the start of the relationship. It practically is the start cause even though its 2 months in id say it hasn't even started since he's not making you feel good. Sex aside ofc, as that just by itself isn't a mark of a relationship. So the question then is wtf work on something thats bad from the start? You can either work on a "relationship" that starts out that bad, or you can do what most gals ime do, check out the next guy in line. Chances are extremely high hell start out by making you feel good
Do you complain to him about things un your life like work or your car? I can't see someone just randomly sending this
No. You should be thankful that he wants the best for you.
Don't change for anybody, but for yourself if it is needed. In this case there is nothing that needs changing👍
You just need to clear it out with him before making any decision
I think you should tell him how you feel. If he doesn't understand, then break up.
U shud b thankful tbh he wants u to reach ur potential
I'd say you should talk about it to your boyfriend, but if he insists to make you better, I think you got your answer.
If he's making you feel like everything you've done isn't enough for you and him, then I'd say, ditch him