Who is more to blame: the cheater or the person they had an affair with? (Page 3)
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When it happened to me I was far more pissed at the ex he had cheated with and called her every nasty name in the book in my head and basically wanted to hurt her but honestly it's the person who's in a relationship's fault. They're the ones with a responsibility to stay faithful, not the person they cheat with if they're single. I have cute guys hitting on me when i'm in a relationship and I ignore them, it's not even hard if you actually love your partner.
Both of them equally. All the people who kept it from the person who is getting cheated on is compliant as well. Humans are social animals. Cheating is social.
Both of them are to blame. You can argue that maybe the other person didn't know the one was committed to someone else but if you know someone well to go to bed with them, by that point, you would know if the other is involved with someone or not. That being said, they are both to blame
When it comes to infidelity there are so many avenues to explore when it comes to who is at fault, it will always depends on the individuals involved and their situation.
Regardless playing the blame game can only make things more complicated.
If they both knew what was going on going into it, they are both equally to blame. If someone hid information, they are more to blame.
The cheater always makes the choice. In many instances the other person is not even aware that the person is attached.
It depends. If your partner cheats with a stranger, it’s purely his/her fault. If he/she cheats with your sibling or friend, the betrayal is pretty equal, especially if you are close to them.
Well if the lady/gentleman is aware that the partner had a significant other both would be at fault but if they had no idea then it would be the cheater's fault. Depends on the scenario is the answer.
it depends. in my past relationship. it was mainly been guys but here one trick things. at college one girl knew this guy was in a relationship with me at time, but she ruined my trust and my now ex boyfriend. by the way i was cheated on more than once , different ex boyfriend
The person to blame is yourself for not being good enough for the cheater,
The cheater cheats cos your not giving them everything they need in a relationship
For example if you don’t give your boyfriend sex and he cheats, you can only blame yourself for not giving him sex
Here’s how I see it. Of course it’s wrong on both parts when it comes to the cheater and that who they’re cheating with. However unlike the one who the cheater is seeing, the cheater itself actually knows that person they’re cheating on and they’re just willing to throw that person’a feelings in the trash
Both are equally to blame. They're both 100% guilty.
why do they even do it in the first place (in context that both the person who is cheating and their affair know about your relationship)?
The cheater. The one that had an affair with was someone that made it happen but the cheater made the choice to do it
The cheated of course. They are not forced to do this, they might be tempted or seduced but its still their choice.
The cheater but the other still have a part of responsibility if they knew.
The cheater. They are the ones with the responsibility and who made the prior commitment to be in a monogamous relationship.
it depends on the if the other person knew but whether the other person knew or not. If the cheater REALLY loved and respected you, they would not have cheated in the first place.
The cheater, that person could've just stayed with his/her partner and discuss the issues but instead he/she chose to avoid the conversation and make things worst.
It still goes both ways. I've been in places in relationships that made me want to cheat, because I wanted to talk and they refused.
@vanitiesythe Wow, then there is some rare exceptions then.
The cheater hands down, the cheater is the one, as the name suggests, who cheats, the other person is just an opportunist with lesser moral still one who haven't made any promises to anyone.