A ton of girls have been flirting with my boyfriend since he got buff. It's been driving me insane. How can I best handle a ton of women flirting with him? (Page 3)

Anonymous · 2020-05-07T22:36:14Z

I've been with my now boyfriend for a long time. When we first got together he was pretty skinny and didn't have a lot of muscle. He started working out and has since gotten really buff. In a lot of ways I really love how buff he's gotten (obviously). His six pack abs, toned chest, and gorgeous butt just drive me wild! However, he has been getting a lot more attention from girls since he got muscles. It's not hard for me to catch girls checking him out when we're in public. There are also a lot of girls who come up to him and hit on him (usually when I'm not there, but there are a few times it has happened when I'm right next to him holding his hand!). Whenever I see women flirt with my man I want to rip their heads off (metaphorically) and tell them to back off. Part of the reason why I hate it is I don't like other girls all over my man. However, I do think that is intensified by the fact that I've gotten somewhat insecure since he got buff. I generally consider myself to be a fairly attractive looking girl, but (if I'm being honest) some of the girls that flirt with him are way prettier than me (as in 9s and 10s on the looks scale). In all fairness I do believe he's told them he has a girlfriend and isn't interested (which doesn't stop all of them BTW), but I still sometimes worry he'll leave me for some prettier girl. Maybe that isn't fair, but it's true. It scares me because of how in love with him I am. He truly is the rock of my life. If he ever left me I think my whole world would fall apart. I would have no idea what to do. How can I best handle so many (gorgeous) women flirting with him? How can I stop being so jealous/worried and become more secure?

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It looks you don’t trust him. Has he giving you a reason not trust him?

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Dress him in a shirt that will scare off the other ladies. Do incels have custom Ts?

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Embrace the suck sister! If he really loves you, you will be the ONLY girl in his world!

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God bless you 2
Keep the faith and the blessings

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Blue_Brady Follow
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If he's a good guy then you shouldn't be worried.

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U can tell him whats happening to u... 'polietly'.

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Get a shirt that says "yandere" and open carry

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kaymacd Follow
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trust him to do the right thing.

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I'm pretty sure this is written by dude

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ermirI Follow
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tell him to tell them he is gay, simple

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hard_R Follow
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there’s nothing you can do

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Flirt with the women that are flirting with him.

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Do the same as him?

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Three way

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