My first boyfriend and I broke up in October. He was a great boyfriend and after we broke up he asked me how I felt about everything and what I wanted to be and I told him we could just be friends. He brought up the idea of being friends with benefits
which I was hesitant about at first but then agreed.
in January things didn’t work out so I apologized for everything and just stopped talking to him. He viewed my Snapchat’s for a few days after that I don't know why
4 months later he randomly views one of my Snapchat’s which is a text conversation with a lot of hearts so I assume he’s still curious about me. Then I posted a lot of random stuff after to test him and he didn’t look.
We’re in quarantine so he would have to intentionally pick and choose what he looks at on my story But I was at the beach and posted a video with hearts on it and he looked at that out of nowhere! I try to put myself in that situation and I think he was probably trying to see who was in the video.
Plus if I didn’t like a guy I wouldn’t view those specific snapchats especially if I hadn’t really viewed anything else of his. But today it confused me because I posted something about the riots and he viewed it. And to be fair he viewed the beach and text one really fast.
I’m just so confused Why doI know he is somewhat curious but what confuses me is that he looked at my snapchats right after we broke up and I told him I missed him and he said dit back. Then when I stopped talking to him 7 months ago he stopped viewing them for about 4 months and then now voila here we are, he is viewing them again which is kinda weird to me. Is he trying to get my attention or is he interested in my life again? I don’t know how to win. If I don’t text him then i’ll feel like I should have and if I do ill feel desperate but this is how I feel.
Like i said I dont want him to feel like he's always got me on a hook but at the same time its not fair to me to not own up to my feelings.
which I was hesitant about at first but then agreed.
in January things didn’t work out so I apologized for everything and just stopped talking to him. He viewed my Snapchat’s for a few days after that I don't know why
4 months later he randomly views one of my Snapchat’s which is a text conversation with a lot of hearts so I assume he’s still curious about me. Then I posted a lot of random stuff after to test him and he didn’t look.
We’re in quarantine so he would have to intentionally pick and choose what he looks at on my story But I was at the beach and posted a video with hearts on it and he looked at that out of nowhere! I try to put myself in that situation and I think he was probably trying to see who was in the video.
Plus if I didn’t like a guy I wouldn’t view those specific snapchats especially if I hadn’t really viewed anything else of his. But today it confused me because I posted something about the riots and he viewed it. And to be fair he viewed the beach and text one really fast.
I’m just so confused Why doI know he is somewhat curious but what confuses me is that he looked at my snapchats right after we broke up and I told him I missed him and he said dit back. Then when I stopped talking to him 7 months ago he stopped viewing them for about 4 months and then now voila here we are, he is viewing them again which is kinda weird to me. Is he trying to get my attention or is he interested in my life again? I don’t know how to win. If I don’t text him then i’ll feel like I should have and if I do ill feel desperate but this is how I feel.
Like i said I dont want him to feel like he's always got me on a hook but at the same time its not fair to me to not own up to my feelings.
