In my case i get outta ideas on what to talk about which leads to a ded chat that's too much frustrating, so i prefer to text when i am in a good mood and with something good to talk about.
The time apart probably makes the time together feel more special. And sometimes people like some time for themselves, to either hang out with friends, family or just by themselves.
Oh yeah that's too much for me too. With my last girlfriend, even if I was busy the whole day, I'd at least one a text and then call her once my days done.
I have no idea, my wife and i before we got married and before we lived with each other, made it a point to call each other daily before bed and when we woke up.. We needed that contact.
Well, in my opinion they’re mistaken. I think if you really like someone seeing them every day… Well at least ALMOST every day, is a great thing, the more you like someone the more you want to be with them. however, taking a day or two off to spend time with your friends is normal and healthy. Shutting your friends out when you were in a new relationship might be acceptable for the first week or two but after that it can get old. I think if the person you’re crushing on doesn’t WANT you to spend time with your friends… Huge rug flag! No, that person is too controlling! But if it’s mutual, you both want to spend pretty much every waking moment together… That’s love (well at least it’s infatuation) and that’s perfectly normal in a new relationship. But again, to reiterate, taking a day off or maybe two every week just to spend time with your friends is certainly good, and most importantly, healthy.
I guess it matters if you’re in a relationship. But we all have crushes on people. I wouldn’t be hurt if I found out my wife had a crush on a male friend at work. I’d be crushed if she acted on it.
Some people can do that. Not everybody is down to have that amount of contact though. I know I’m not. It’s not that I don’t enjoy talking with the person, it’s that I don’t like filling the space between us with a bunch of chatter all the time.
Based on what I have seen, it's very likely to be friendzoned if you have long talks to your crush every other day because she starts to see you as a friend instead of a potential sex partner
If it's just a one sided crush, seeing them and talking to them everyday may seem like chasing. It may be even disturbing to that person if he/she is not into you.
But the one having crush will always prefer to see him/her everyday.
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In my case i get outta ideas on what to talk about which leads to a ded chat that's too much frustrating, so i prefer to text when i am in a good mood and with something good to talk about.
I hate texting for that reason. Phone calls or in person are better
Phone calls are good but then again that awkward silence when both don't really have anything to say.
The time apart probably makes the time together feel more special.
And sometimes people like some time for themselves, to either hang out with friends, family or just by themselves.
And thats fine to take hours a day to do your own thing. But to not wanna talk at all for 24 hours is ridiculous to me
Oh yeah that's too much for me too.
With my last girlfriend, even if I was busy the whole day, I'd at least one a text and then call her once my days done.
I have no idea, my wife and i before we got married and before we lived with each other, made it a point to call each other daily before bed and when we woke up.. We needed that contact.
Me and some exes also did the same
I honestly don’t know anybody who does think it’s a bad thing!
Well i know plenty here
Well, in my opinion they’re mistaken. I think if you really like someone seeing them every day… Well at least ALMOST every day, is a great thing, the more you like someone the more you want to be with them. however, taking a day or two off to spend time with your friends is normal and healthy. Shutting your friends out when you were in a new relationship might be acceptable for the first week or two but after that it can get old. I think if the person you’re crushing on doesn’t WANT you to spend time with your friends… Huge rug flag! No, that person is too controlling! But if it’s mutual, you both want to spend pretty much every waking moment together… That’s love (well at least it’s infatuation) and that’s perfectly normal in a new relationship. But again, to reiterate, taking a day off or maybe two every week just to spend time with your friends is certainly good, and most importantly, healthy.
I don't see it as a bad thing either but make sure you give them their space to no one likes to be suffocated either.
Im not in a relationship. Just a general question. And space is fine but to not wanna talk daily like at all is stupid to me
Right I agree I'm just saying you know balance it out.
Maybe some people think they are bothering them by texting or talking to a crush daily.
Thats a good point. Well he better communicate that to me or he's toast 🤣🤷♀️
😂😂 I don't think you be having that kind of communication problems lol
I have before. Thats why they’re dust
Ok wow that a surprise
If I really loved a girl, I would probablu want to talk to her everyday so...
I don't see anything wrong with talking to your crush every day.
I agree
No clue. It's good, the more moves you make the more chance you make him yours, simple.
I agree
Because you grow numb to them. Passion grows when you're separate.
If you're constantly with someone, they stop being as exciting.
I disagree
Then you're wrong
Never had a problem bwith talking to my crush everyday. Just let them be for a few hours so they don't feel exhausted from the conversations.
I agree
I guess it matters if you’re in a relationship. But we all have crushes on people. I wouldn’t be hurt if I found out my wife had a crush on a male friend at work. I’d be crushed if she acted on it.
I meant crush or partner
Oh, then I don't know. Never heard that. Unless they’re insanely shy.
People playing this hard to get shit and inflating their bullshit "value".
I agree. I’d move on
it's called space. if you invade it all, there ain't much left. I usually referred to as like that girl really walks on the ground I worship
Probably because they are used to talking via text mostly.
I hate text
Me as well. Relationships die in text.
i like talking to my crush, but maybe every other day
Because you can run out of things to say, and the interactions become less meaningful
I was with someone for 2 years and we never ran out. U gotta be able to hold a convo
Some people can do that. Not everybody is down to have that amount of contact though. I know I’m not. It’s not that I don’t enjoy talking with the person, it’s that I don’t like filling the space between us with a bunch of chatter all the time.
It's important they both want to see each other everyday. Space is really important in relationship.
I certainly don't mind good night texts and good morning stuff on a daily basis.
I mean i like good morning texts but i wouldn't want good night texts cause i rather sleep in person together or on the phone together haha
Based on what I have seen, it's very likely to be friendzoned if you have long talks to your crush every other day because she starts to see you as a friend instead of a potential sex partner
If it's just a one sided crush, seeing them and talking to them everyday may seem like chasing.
It may be even disturbing to that person if he/she is not into you.
But the one having crush will always prefer to see him/her everyday.