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There is already verses in Bible saying about having sex with the same gender.
Read it.
What you are doing is shameful and unnatural. Deep down you know this is true which is why you are hiding it from those close to you. Keep hiding it until you outgrow this phase and fairly soon you will get back to craving cock.
She’s hiding it because her family might not accept her...
We can’t make that decision for you you need to make it yourselves keeping in mind there is no going back most of us have no idea what it’s like so we can’t render a realistic opinion.
This site is fulll of radical conservatives. Wrong question on wrong site
When do you turn 18? Are you starting college soon?
People are to encourage to be open and proud and ya de ya. But you are still under your parents house. I know it’s cool nowadays for kids to “celebrate” their alternative sexuality and parents are under societal pressure to not only accept it but be somehow proud of it. While a parent should never do drastic punishment (that tent thing was borderline abuse) they do have a right to have a say. I’m not sure how my parents would reacted when I messing girls in the basement of my house at 16. They almost caught me one time (I was messing around with the neighbor girl)
Also not judging you but from a Christian perspective what you are doing is a sin. But I’ve have a closet full of skeletons myself.
There will come a day where you will need to confront this head on acknowledge what it is. I’ve had to confess and repent (often fail at it but I’m still convicted).
Your a kid so I won’t go any deeper than that above. But you are not a “coward” if you want to keep this behind closed doors (no pun intended). The repercussions could outweigh the relief you have from telling everybody. This will be a huge shock to your entire family. But don’t feel “pressured” by our woke society to just say this out of defiance. But when you are legally an adult that’s a different story.
Just try out yourself in your parents shoes right now.
For any God to call love a sin is no God that I will ever answer to its why I left christianity completely and turned to the pagan gods of my heritage where I found refuge. If a god calls love a sin then he is a poor and foul god who deserves no respect /I\
@CelticCrusader she said she has a Christian upbringing and I still have Christian values. I don’t condemn nor judge her. Just said there is a day for her to make a decision but being proud of that lifestyle is a open defiance to God.
But take your opportunistic crap elsewhere. This isn’t your opportunity to convert her to paganism or atheism. She’s a kid but she’s also a young woman. She make her faith decisions for herself. The only reason I recommended that she stay quiet is because she is financially dependent on her parents. When she is out of the house she can come out whenever she wants.
I am not trying convert her because each must find their own path but since you chose to have and insult her with your self righteous judgment that she is bound for hell because of her beliefs which she is entitled to as are you than you can fuck off with your God as if you have the right to judge her soul then may I say I'll see you in hell should I be wrong. It is self righteous and over proud and close minded people such as yourself that pervert a religion meant to bring people together and instead use it as justification to condem others for things they gave no control over. Love is not a choice it is an Ernest and pure emotion regardless of who it's felt for. Jesus said love everyone did he stutter? No he did not it is your kind of veiws that is driving people away and pride which all self righteous people hold to that is the greatest sin. So if you will repent that or you shall meet your God with sins unconfessed
I mean you should wait until you know you could take care of yourself. I mean it’s unfortunate the situation you’re in, but I mean you don’t know where this is going to go. Make sure you’re safe and sustainable before coming out.
If you're not ready to label it, then don't. Only come out when you're sure. I came out once only to later realize that I am straight lol.
You could say you're dating her, but not say for certain what your sexuality is.
Why do you need to come out anyways? It is nobody's business but yours and hers.
Just keep it between yourselves and see how things work out.
I think this is a bad time to tell anyone. Wait until your living situation is more stable.
Long time boyfriend? But you're under 18. hmmmm sounds real
Im 17, I've been with my boyfriend since i was 11 and the relationship obviously got more serious over time. It isn't unheard of.
Ex boyfriend
I was trying to decide how to reply to you on this and I have decided:
LIAR !
It is ok to be bsex, i am to there is nothing to worry about it, don't shame you're self
Only if your ready and feel safe doing so.
Do you know how your family feels about the lgbt issues.
It is not important to. Your boyfriend will get jealous.
No.
It's ''my girlfriend and I.''
Only come out if you both feel comfortable hun
You should come out of Babylon.
When both of you are ready, y'all can do it
Sounds like me, the guy in the starting lol : )
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What?
'always really intense', that's what.