My girlfriends best friend flirts with me (I think). Should I tell my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I am not sure if she flirts with me on purpose but it certainly seems like it. She looks intensely into my eyes a lot, when we're alone she changes the subject to something sexual. Yesterday was especially weird. My girlfriend still lives with her parents, in their basement. All three of us were down there and my girlfriend went upstairs to get drinks. We were talking and she turned to look at me and in doing so put her hand on my thigh. So we were just looking directly into each other's eyes with her hand lightly on my thigh talking about nothing. I started to get hard (I can't control it) and it was becoming increasingly uncomfortable so I got up to check on the drinks. As I did she looked at my crotch and gave a girly "ooooh" sound.

Then when we came back everything was normal. Am I being crazy? Girls never show interest in me like that, is she just acting normal? Should I tell my girlfriend? I'm kind of confused.

[SammyGurl]

Yes, you should discuss this with your girlfriend. She can decide if she wants to talk to her girlfriend in private about it. I for one would not appreciated one of my friends doing this to my guy. One of my fiancé's friends did hit on me a couple times this year after he left for university across the state; after I told my fiancé about it he spoke to his friend and it stopped. My guy comes home every weekend so I didn't have to handle it over the phone, something like that should be a face to face discussion and handled in person with their friend.

Just be carefule how you handle it, her girlfriend can always deny the incident making you look stupid. That's why it's good to talk to your GF/BF face to face, and for them to talk to their friend in person and in private so there isn't any enpmbarassment over it. Then just move on like it didn't happen, unless it doesn't stop. I have no clue after that other than just don't be alone with her friend, seems prudish but if it protects your relationship so what!

[DaniJ]

I definitely think you should tell her... Especially before her friend does... Think of the ways she could twist the story to make it look like it was your fault...

[kittykatg]

Yes tell your girlfriend because her friend is a bitch.

[Anonymous]

U should tell ur girl man if u love her & don't wanna lose this relationship ... she will respect u more & ur relationship will be stronger... & i wanna say something about cheaters those people is in a mental illness situation they should c a mental doc or someone expert cuz this is not right... putt ur self in a position that u & ur best friend did the beach & ur best friend had sex with someone that u would have feelings for & he knows would u trust him again... for her girl she'll understands that girl will ruin my life y would i even talk with her.

[Zigzagz]

CRAZY HARPY! jk sounds like she is very attracted to you though. and wants you to cheat.

[Creeper1o1]

Might be a test

[Zigzagz]

That would be so evil. and one should consider what kind of girl they want to be with especially if that girl has no capacity to trust.

[Chris17]

Yes tell her, because if you don't and she haves to find out she will no longer trust you anymore, and feel betrayed by two people even though you didn't even do anything with her friend...