If someone falls out of love with you, were they ever truly in love at all? (Page 2)
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I don’t understand the quote. People lose interest. They don’t necessarily lose love, they forget how to cherish it with the person they intend to be with.
I think true love will never die. More common is what I call romantic love which is where the most people fit. This is the love that won't pass the tests of everything life throws at us.
We change a lot over the course of our lives. I think we can love who someone was, but not love who they became.
I dont think so. I think its possible that you just dont love them romantically anymore, just in a different way. but they will always have a part in you, even just a little. if you believe that you dont care about that person at all anymore, I dont think its "falling out of love", its just you were simply never in love with them. it could be that you just thought u were. but in reality it was just an attachment and not real love. it happens.
If you weren’t constantly hurting them, then yes, I’m convinced the person never truly loved them at all — only enjoyed their company and used the L-word to maintain them 💔
If you can say or feel " I no longer love you", then you never truly loved that person. The only exception I would make is if the person became seriously abusive and was not that way when you fell in love.
It does make you wonder what their love was based on 🤔 but to me, you can never stop loving a person. Platonically is still an option and if that's gone then to me, they placed their basis for love in the wrong place
You need to actively work on your relationship. Otherwise one of u or both will loose interest in one-another and fall out of love.
Yes, as years go by people change. Their interest towards another person changes.
Falling out of love is an excuse for not wanting to put in the work required to make a relationship last. It’s a choice that you make every single day to care less and less about/for that other person.
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They probably never loved you, but love an illusion of who they thought you are..
Also, first impressions can really be deceiving
Interesting question. Gave it Thumbs up. I believe you can fall in love and then out of it for different reasons. I do not care for the words "true-love" Love is true , regardless. There is no true or false love. It is simply "love"
"in love" is based on emotion. If someone loses the emotion that does not mean the emotion was never there.
True love never dies. Sometimes you discover that the person isn’t who you thought they were though.
If you fall out of love it's not due to there being no reason. There's always one. It could be due to so many different factors.
Unless there was reasons backed behind it like constant cheating, not changing a bad habit, etc... Then the answers no, you cannot
Just because something ceases to exist, it doesn't mean it never existed.
That is a great question it all depends on each individual
There doesn't have to be a reason. People change, they develop, they evolve, they progress.
Someone or something makes it happen you just can’t fall out of love just like that