They would be called a mistress, not side chick, and as someone who doesn't ever plan on getting married, I have no strong feelings one way or the other
After getting into tantra I realised something, that there's something better than a regular orgams. Which is an energetic orgasm. You literally feel ecstasy.
Most people never experience that side of sexuallity, which you only can have with someone which you have a deep emotional connection and a high level of surrender.
This level of sex no hook up can give me, neither it can the kind of partnership you have.
@Warmapplecrumble It feels like meditating, but with orgasmic sensations. Like you are full of adrenaline.
You get to that by enjoying time on more emotional aspects of sexuality, rather than the sex itself. Like kissing, hugging, holding your cheek over the other's person cheek, taking turns to ask the other person to do something to you. Simple things like that.
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They would be called a mistress, not side chick, and as someone who doesn't ever plan on getting married, I have no strong feelings one way or the other
Why don't you ever want to get married?
Would you say it's natural to feel unfulfilled with your partner?
YES for sure!
After getting into tantra I realised something, that there's something better than a regular orgams. Which is an energetic orgasm. You literally feel ecstasy.
Most people never experience that side of sexuallity, which you only can have with someone which you have a deep emotional connection and a high level of surrender.
This level of sex no hook up can give me, neither it can the kind of partnership you have.
Is tantra orgasming inwards?
@Warmapplecrumble You feel fire.
That'd hurt and burn 馃槀 can you explain more please as I don't understand
@Warmapplecrumble It feels like meditating, but with orgasmic sensations. Like you are full of adrenaline.
You get to that by enjoying time on more emotional aspects of sexuality, rather than the sex itself. Like kissing, hugging, holding your cheek over the other's person cheek, taking turns to ask the other person to do something to you. Simple things like that.
I feel something similar but not sure if it's tantra
@Warmapplecrumble Well, it's not that hard actually. It just happens that most people don't know about it, they only know about regular orgasm.
It's just I don't know what it's supposed to feel like to answer the question, that's all 馃槉
@Warmapplecrumble It feels like intense fire on the tummy.
But is that for everyone , maybe different people feel different things?
@Warmapplecrumble With practice you feel more, of different things. But it ends as said, feeling fire ;)
Really I get like tingling feeling 馃檲
@Warmapplecrumble That can get way more intense, like adrenaline.
Really how?
@Warmapplecrumble By focusing on the sensations, taking time, plenty of time. Eventually you learn how to get into them with greater intensity.
I will do that. Thanks 馃檪
@Warmapplecrumble You'll see ;)
If you let your man do what ever he wants with you, he dont need a sidechick.
The fact you think people should even consider this!
Reality
I鈥檓 here to give the people what they want! That is all!
Not for me. My wife isn鈥檛 into open marriage and I hate lying.
Spouses who cheat should not be married. Side sex wouldn鈥檛 exist without cheaters. Obviously.
Not at all. Just move the hell out if you don't want to be with your current partner and do it with some class and dignity.
Chris Watts' having a side chick didn't help keep his marriage alive.
No, if you have a side chick, that marriage means nothing honestly, unless it's an open relationship type marriage then more power to you
Wtf kind of question is this? NO! Why would your man cheating on you be essential to keeping a marriage alive? Come on now...
Ha great screen name ! 馃幆
Probably.
I mean lots of women end up cheating on their husbands eventually.
If he didn't get a side chick he would just be a cuck.
There's two kinds of married men.
Ones that have been cheated on and ones that are too stupid to know they've been cheated on.
Not all women cheat...
It can make or break a relationship and with a marriage it can be a bit harder for a married couple but sometimes it works for the better.
Hell no, and my husband knows it as well.
I've been told that competition anxiety is good for women and, based on what I've seen, I agree.
So perhaps.
No, compatibility is essential
i doubt it
If you don't feed the dog, don't be surprised when it goes looking for food elsewhere.
Side chicks for the husband, side dicks for the wife.
If you feel you need one to keep your marriage alive, then you are with the wrong girl. Get a divorce
Not for this guy, not much of a marriage if you have a girl on the side.
Girl on the side = Loser