Why do guys lie about having girlfriends and do you think he’d leave her for me if I was closer to him? (Page 2)

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This guy lied to me the whole year we were talking about being single. I’ve asked him twice about his relationship status he always confessed he had no girlfriend and was single. So we continued speaking. I stated to develop strong feelings for him. We met up twice he took me on a date and couldn’t stop touching me and kissing my hands and touching my hair and keep his eyes off me. He said I smelled nice and I was glowing. He also kept on checking me out all the time. It’s like he was staring right in my soul. We had sex and he always got distant after sex. Even though the sex was good. We sexted a lot and he use to say stuff how I make him bad and how he’s not like that with anyone else and how he wishes i lived closer so we can meet up more. He said he doesn’t want a ldr with me as ldr never works and he’s prefer seeing me everyday. Also he kept on asking me to hurry up and visit him in he’s town as he couldn’t wait to see me. I did go see him again and it was a disaster. Yeah we spent time and stuff but he fucked me over!! At the end it ended up with us unfollowing each other. Thing is I stayed for two days in his home town and he didn’t turn up the next day to see me as we planned he texted he was coming and then I never heard anything back. So then I found out he had a girlfriend all this time. She is someone I didn’t think he’d go for. I’m not being big headed but I thought I was more his type as he goes for dark tanned girls with dark hair. Why would he lie to me all this time he convinced me he’s always honest with me since we started talking. I’m so gutted and devastated he did this. Do you guys think he even likes his own girlfriend to be doing this to her?

Hangry22 · Answer

Told you this already. Cause he's a trashy player who wants to use you only for sex

Snickermarstwix · Answer

Why you say "guys" when it's just him? Like what kind of answers do you expect?
And date a cheater if you want but chances are you'll be a sidechick for ever. Now if you're evil you can help his girl finding out about you.

Anonymous · Answer

He must have got "bored or in arguments" with his girlfriend, so he found you and keep you aside... the thing is he kept it away, knowing that if you found out, you might never gone out/have sex with him... i wouldve done the same! 😉

bulletbob555 · Answer

Well if he did this with you and had a girlfriend where would that leave you if y'all were together. Hey you had fun I hope. I also hope you find someone closer that you can that you can have a relationship with

Koalamate · Answer

He cheated and it was planned he's just an asshole you don't want him.

nawtee_me · Answer

If he lied to you about someone else, then he would lie about you to someone else too. Do you really want a cheater for a boyfriend?

REDHOTLINE · Answer

Why he lied to you coz he wants her and you together. I dont think he left his girlfriend for you but he wants you too

Dave31989 · Answer

the same reason a woman would lie about having a boyfriend she's not in to the guy being hit on, regardless of if she has a boyfriend or not

closetweirdo · Answer

so that he can have 2 cos there's a misconception that ur only alowed one so he's hiding the fact he already has one so that u won't walk away from him

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You really need to let it go. You do NOT want to have a relationship with this guy. He's total trash. Open your eyes!

Posterboy56 · Answer

Obviously he likes you and feels conflicted. Yes, he likes you, and ALSO likes her. People do have that capacity, you know. It's not complicated.

havingfun101 · Answer

When a man is attractive all women think like you do. 🙄

ICECREAMWITHOREA · Answer

I think he was just seeing that what could happen if he tells you that he has a girlfriend but im thinking that he likes you and don't wanna lose you that's why he was doing that

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Sounds like the guy doesn't have respect for people's feelings

Syrian_survivor · Answer

He's a nasty cheater, if he leaves her for you, he'll leave you for another girl

soleil6997 · Answer

Sex, as in funking- you could call good - but it wrecks your feelings.

Jerre · Answer

Sounds like he just wanted to fuck you. I would find someone else.

Alex_988_2 · Answer

PM me I can explain this psychology I guess Follow me tho

Bshu2jdbxb · Answer

I don't have any girlfriend I m not a liar , I m never said lie to anyone about my girlfriend

Joe1956 · Answer

he's a player... he'll be the same way with you to someone else

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