It's been 7 years & my boyfriend still hasn't proposed? What do y'all think? (Page 4)

[Dargil]

I think he is already getting what he wants. I would not even attempt negotiate. Just be on your way. At 29, you should be in a better situation.

[Kiss_Me]

Its time to require some action on his part. You have been VERY patient. IF is not ready for marriage by now, time to find a new guy.

[SweetDisaster]

Talk to him have a serious and respectful conversation. Communication and trust is the key to a beautiful relationship. But dawn 7 years Holly molly ( ･ิД･ิ) ノ

[PetrovaFire92]

If you wanted to marry you you would have did it by now...🙄... Maybe he feel like he's too old to get married.. now.🤷 if he's almost 50 years old. Maybe he doesn't want kids.

[DizzyDesii]

No way i’d stay that long. If he doesn't propose by or before year 3, its prob never happening. Even i would hope he proposed by or before year 2

[LemiaOfTheCodes]

If your that desprate to get married why dont you quit belly aching and propose yourself.

[Drumlin2001]

He disappeared for 2 years and you took him back? Do you not think he hooked up with others whilstbhe was away? You ok with that?

[sheikalana]

Maybe he's not interested in getting married and is happy with how things are between the both of you.

[Jamie05rhs]

If he ain't ready to settle down by now, he ain't ever going to be.

[DWornock]

I think he realizes that for most men, marriage is a very bad deal and will remain that way as long as the laws and family courts greatly favor women at the expense of men.

[IlluminatiExposed0]

Why would he settle down? He's getting everything he wants without making any commitment whatsoever. So how about what you want? Just a ring? Or to have kids and a partner who's going to be there when you get old?

[Paul09]

Wow, and I thought I was confused. You are either super confused. Or looking for a sugar daddy? This is not a actual realationship, if that's what you want. And in 10 years you'll be dating a senior lol. In the end, he is using you for sex.

[kingofthellamas]

I think it's worth remembering that marriage is a big risk factor for most men. Just legally it's not a wise step to make. I would cut him some slack.

[Vesuvius87]

and the OP isn't reassuring the guy that she's a good candidate for marriage... she's putting absolutely nothing to the table
How is relying on men to buy you stuff gonna convince any man to get married?

[KrakenAttackin]

@Vesuvius87 Absolutely.

[Poppykate]

You are 29. Find someone willing to commit, because this one won’t... or just learn to live with it.

[Stevepro68]

You need to talk to him about it
Obviously its important to you and no so much to him.

[Dinklex3]

I think that's an open conversation you need to have with him.

[Juxtapose]

Marriage is a misandrist institution designed to transfer wealth from men to women. He would have to be a fool to get married.

[navyrobin]

You say he’s great but you also said he disappeared for 2 years in the same sentence. I don’t think this is something a “great” person would do.

[navyrobin]

Wtf he’s almost 50? Why oh why are you dating this person?

[caligirl03]

Don't ever act like a wifey when you're only a girlfriend, baby girl.

[treselle]

He randomly left you for TWO YEARS? And you’re still pretending to be his wife by doing things for him? Girl you are not so smart