Do you prefer to be the boss in your relationships, or let your partner be the boss?

Do you prefer to be the boss in your relationships, or let your partner be the boss?
I've been thinking about this pretty much all night.
I've joked that I'm the "King" of my circle of fiancée, family and friends, but the more I think about it, the more I realize I should be the boss.
It's not like I'm being prepotent - after all they already put me in that position unofficially given the way they all orbit around me and look at me.
So in the next days I'll take steps to consolidate my authority with all of them - fiancée, mother, sister, friends and associates.
What about you?
Do you prefer to be the boss in your relationships, or let your partner be the boss?
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