True or false: women fall in love, men fall in lust?

[Cherrylicious]

We all know that men don't really value love as much as women. They like companionship, possession and sex. Women love unconditionally while men love with conditions they only love what they benefit from being with you and they love the way women make them feel in other words, they love your actions rather than you but if you cut off all cooking, cleaning, sex etc. Watch if the love is still there?

Women are mostly seeking love and commitment while most men are only seeking sex and "friends with benefits" relationships women are judged more by looks so that's what men go after first more than anything rather than thinking about whether or not she will make a good wife/girlfriend they chase the women who challenges them and withhold sex from them until they have invested a lot of money and time on them but once that happens, then they will slowly begin to love because they've invested so much into them.

Men don't love women it's all about the lust which is why they're more unfaithful than women.

Women fall in love too easily because they're seeking love and validation from men while most men just want to hit it quit it.

[RemoErdosain]

You're pulling facts out of your ass. Women are no angels, and men are not all evil, although most men and most women are evil indeed. Men are not more unfaithful than women. How many men have you interacted with? Also, the amount of girls who post here that they have or want a friends with benefits is overwhelming. It takes two to tango, you know.
"if you cut off all cooking, cleaning, sex etc. Watch if the love is still there?"
If you cut all the paying for dates, gifts, having sex, and doing house chores from a man you also are left with the undatable, so what's your point?

[David92506]

I enjoyed reading your comment and gave it a "thumbs up."

[RemoErdosain]

@David92506 Thank you, David

[Unit1]

I assume you and your friends got burned by certain guys.
Nah, we are not all like that. There's me. I feel love for women and I'm into romance and affections. My first and last one left me for a richer man in a bigger city and ghosted me. Her actions were illusions. So it happens on both sides. There are times where I think women don't love unconditionally but posts like this reevaluates my thinking. We just haven't found true love yet and nobody said it's easy.

[wittymilf]

I think this mindset is a result of you not valuing yourself enough. The world is flooded with women portraying them selves as sex objects must be confusing for guys to know which ones are looking for sex and which ones are looking for love. I will say one thing, girls tend to struggle to divide the two where as guys see a clear difference between sex and love.

[Pegases]

Overall men value love just as much as women do. The thing is we typically value it more as we mature, just like women. Maturity is the dominant factor that dictates what both men and women are looking for from the opposite sex, and in the modern day, age has little to do with maturity. I've seen women that don't value relationships just as much as I've seen men in the modern day, so it's silly to think men don't value relationships.

[CameronStark]

FALSE. Men need to be loved and want to be loved too, and also want to love others too.
I'm sorry you've had such bad experiences with shitty men that you are led to believe this. I hope that one day you meet good, honorable men who change your opinion.
BUT to generalize like this is very, very offensive. You wouldn't like it if someone assumed you were a certain way because you're female, especially if it was a negative trait. Don't do this very same thing to us.

[Kurαȷ]

Men do value love and commitment, you just have shit taste in men.

[Cherrylicious]

How so?

[AmeerX]

Honey, actually it is the other way round. Men love unconditionally. Females need money, home and material things. Why is it that so many women can use their bodies to advance their careers and marry rich guys while it is not available to males

[NarutoUzumaki007]

going by your logic , there should be no happily married couple in the world. All marriages would end in divorce if that was true.

[20yearsolder]

I would say that it's pretty much true, it takes guys much longer to fall in love but it does happen

[chris_987]

You started of the question with a lie. So just because you choose men that wanted to have sex with you doesn’t mean men don’t love, they just for whatever reason can’t love you

[FriendlyEnigma]

False, but we love to see people generalizing an entire gender 🤩

[Cherrylicious]

Why because it's true?😂😂😂

[FriendlyEnigma]

And i'm sure you believe that :)

[bklynbadboy1]

Thats not true how can you say that it depends on the person cause I know women that don't value love at all

[Cherrylicious]

But there are 20 times more women that value love and relationships as opposed to men that's the point that I am making here.

[bklynbadboy1]

And where is through proof to back that up? Women are just as bad as men now maybe that was true 20 years ago but do you have any idea how many women that are out here playing men

[Liam_Hayden]

"We all know that men don't really value love as much as women"

No, we don't all know or believe that.

[InferiorElegy]

I'd say false but I know all the feminazis and other types of man haters out there will demand it's true, so let them win.

[Phariah_]

I'm the complete opposite... wonder if I'm an alien...

[Unit1]

You are not alone. You are homo sapiens.

[Chris786]

You sound inexperienced.

[Cherrylicious]

How so?

[Chris786]

As a man I can tell you that I have loved women deeply and I've definitely encountered women that are shallow and only judge men in their looks.
I've also been involved with women who couldn't stay faithful or last in a committed relationship.
They ended up with a bunch of Friends with Benefits and it seems to suit them.
You're only seeing relationships from your personal perspective, but in reality lots of men and women are both capable of cheating and viewing the opposite gender as sex objects.
You would see women differently from my perspective and experiences.

[ChiTown33]

Somebody's bitter.

[Cherrylicious]

And why do I have to be bitter for speaking the truth about MOST men?

[Rob17792]

false