Guys what do you think of girls hitting you?

Question

The same way a guy hits a woman would it be the same if a girl hot you? I'm talking about being in an abusive relationship where the female is the abuser, where she is physically abusive. It doesn't matter if you get hurt or not, she's still hitting you. Have you ever experienced something like this? Playfully hitting is a totally different thing and slapping while having sex is a different thing as well. It's not necessarily abusive unless they're raping you and it's not consensual sex. What would you do if that happened to you? Or has it already happened to you?

humanearth · Accepted Answer

Oh yeah, i had a girlfriend and a ex-wife like that.

Did you ever see the comedien Chris Titus? He talks about his ex and you think he was talking about my ex.

Yeah, there had been a few times I had to call the cops on her.

The old girlfriend was not as bad. She was the warm up act. For the next crazy bitch that became my 1st wife.

Just like Titus ex, my ex was short and Jewish

https://www.youtube.com/embed/FNrMXuLJ8Xw

I am not making this up. What he talks about. Was almost just like what it was like for my first wife.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/IyrBahdDa3U

Jean-Marie_Céline · Accepted Answer

I won't hit her back, I have worse ways to make her pay.

MCheetah · Answer

If a girl - or anyone else over the age of 11 - seriously tried to hit me, I would knock their f*cking teeth out. Woman, man, teen, senior, cripple, cop... Doesn't matter. I'm a peaceful person, but considering I had an abusive childhood, I don't f*ck around with that, one bit. In fact, I took boxing classes for four years; 2015-2019, and was even a part-time bouncer, and armed guard, from 2011-2015, and it still hasn't made me feel any more safe or secure with that. I legitimately feel uncomfortable in situations like that; but not out of fear of what they might do to me, one bit. Out of fear of what I might do to them, cause I'm not trying to go to prison because someone decided to make a huge mistake with me that day. I'll always try every way to de-escalate a situation, but if someone tries something with me, they damn sure better have more fighting experience than I do and a steel jaw, cause I'm totally willing to break my hand on it.

So no. I don't play with that. The best rule for everyone is to not put your hands on anyone outside of a ring.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Abuse is abuse. My last relationship ended when, in the middle of a very intense argument (we really weren't a good match), she drew her hand back to slap me, but I caught her wrist on the downswing and held it fast. I looked her square in the eye and said "No. No violence." You'd think that would have ended it; that even if the words didn't sink in, the fact that she was struggling to the utmost to free her hand and barely moving mine would. It didn't; she just tried to hit me with her other hand. I caught that, too, and held her still until she stopped struggling. The relationship died then and there. Some things I just won't tolerate.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Never been in a relationship before, but if someone hit me, I probably won't tolerate them.

I may not hit back, simply due to the fact that they're a partner (not due to gender), but if a person can't control their anger and behaves like that, then it's a deal breaker - I posted a poll about something similar to this before and so far, everyone voted yes:

Do you consider it a deal breaker if a partner destroys your possessions when they're angry?

pigoat · Answer

My sister abuses her boyfriend

But he lives with us and if he did something to her he would get kicked iut and be homeless

Or live an another abusive home where gangbangers and drug dealers live

So he's between a rock and a hard place

hahahmm · Answer

Outside of mutually agreed to entertainment it's not allowed. Period. She will be treated just like a man doing it to me. Yes, a man who is shorter than me and weighs less but still a man.

I disagree that "playful hitting is totally different". You see, that depends who is in on the joke. If I'm not in on the joke then I'm not going to take it as totally different. I will instantly retaliate with enough force to say, "don't do that", I mean if she's with me. If she's a stranger I would light her up like a terrorist on the CIA hit list, regardless of what she claims she meant exactly as I would do to a male.

michael1469 · Answer

That ain't gonna fly. Had an ex TRiED to hit me... in a fraction of a second i grab her hand that tried to hit me and i put my forearm on her kneck up against a wall. Told her to not hit me as she stuggled to release her hand to try to hit me. I kept her pinned until she complied. She knew she was in the wrong. But seriously, why would she bother. The argument was over the fact she brought drugs into the house and i had a little daughter who's mother would had made an issue out of that to not see my daughter. So defend my time w my daughter or side with getting my dick wet... i picked my daughter.

I am not proud that i was in such a heated argument. But damn, it literally was like a slow motion film and flawlessly executed movement to protect myslef and my time with my daughter.

FatherJack · Answer

Have had a crazy ex girlfriend that slashed me , unprovoked & out of the blue with a knife... she was instantly binned... and out of the door with her stuff too , I shoved her out. Involving the police would have been a major mistake as they ALWAYS assume male = guilty party & aggressor. The marriage I ended years back chipped away at me mentally , personally much happier staying single , I became a single parent as a result.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Disgusting, as well as disrespectful. Proof that the abuser is a bitch and was never worth his time. Recently one such sod in my country, aged 20, was arrested after her 41 year old boyfriend called the police on her after she stabbed him and threw boiling hot water on him. Good riddance to her and I hope he has the sense to dump that garbage and choose better next time.

Brian___1731 · Answer

Fights are a part of the relationship. I believe dealing with the chaos is necessary because your partner will keep checking if you can deal with the problems. But I'm sure if she disrespects me I will break up with her. I might defend myself but won't ever dare to hit her back.

Levin · Answer

It's a non issue since I wouldn't be in a relationship like that.

There's enough drama and imposed sickness in the course of my life. There's no way I'm actively inviting it or tolerating it.

Seems there's a song for everything!

Anonymous · Answer

In my early 20’s I was in a very abusive relationship and she would leave bruises.
But when I tried to get help, I was told to “suck it up”, “stop being a bitch”, “stop doing things to piss her off” and other bullshit.
I had no shelters to run to, and no one to call.
Then when I called the cops on her near the end, they took me away not her.

MrOracle · Answer

I've never been in a relationship like this, and I certainly wouldn't stay in one that was like this. That's just unacceptable.

NoblesseObligeKK · Answer

Its all about context, if at the time I was being an asshole; I would shamefully accept it. Simillarly, if she was just play hitting me; it'd be fine. However, if the situation did not call for it; Id give her the benefit of the doubt. If she kept it up, I would see it as a huge red flag and move on.

WesBrewer · Answer

Whenever girls hit me I don't do anything back, I usually don't care anyway because it doesn't hurt, it would be a bit odd though, hitting each other in a way that isn't meant for damage is usually something tight-nit guys do.

SunnySri · Answer

Just take the fight to her not physically but legally. Like girls should too which I think a lot of them don't do because of some reasons.

GiventoFly01 · Answer

I wouldn't put up with it. Thankfully I've never been in a situation like that

magiusX26 · Answer

this is the main reason behind the old saying "if she puts herself in a man's place..." i for one will hit back. in an appropriate way mind you. likely inly enough to stun her from striking again then hold her diwn till either she calms or coos get there.

homystew · Answer

If a girl hit me, I would break with her up immediately. And be sure to never see the scum ever again. asap.

Fuego_exe · Answer

No you should never hit a woman. You should instead capture her in a bear hug and hug her till she can't breath. Just a subtle fuck you for hitting me.

CuriousBear2003 · Answer

Physical violence should never be condoned in a relationship. If it is, leave because on a typical day 20,000 calls in the US are for domestic hotlines. I don't want to know the fatalities..

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

If it happens one time, I'll warn her to never do it again. If she does it again, I dump her right then and there. You don't negotiate with such people. You exile them.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I have had women hit me, particularly my last ex hit me a few times. Sometimes it resulted in me giving her a death stare.

Other times I legit didn’t even think anything of it and continued with what I was doing

Liam_Hayden · Answer

I laugh then dump her. Unless she injures me, in which case I press charges then dump her.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

It's one thing if I was threatening her or otherwise putting her in danger (which I would never see myself doing by the way). Its another it is because I said something stupid, messed something up or for no reason whatsoever.

icecreamanmam · Answer

It's rude, unless it's done lightly in the bedroom, at my request only. Otherwise it's assault and charges may be considered.

bowenw · Answer

I would end the relationship. I may forgive them the first time depending on the circumstances, but I wouldn't tolerate it beyond that.

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

If anyone hauls off and hits you with any intend on actually hurting you, they are giving you permission to return exactly what they did. Basically game on.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

If you're not hurt physically I say remove yourself from the situation and call the police. If you think you're life is on the line defend yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

Just like any other abusive relationship... what you allow is what will continue. You would be a fool to stay in an abusive relationship.

RHK36 · Answer

I'd just leave the relationship, certainly not going to stick around for some more.

Unit1 · Answer

If it's playful, part of consented sex or unintended, then nothing. If it's assault or abuse, then they'll get a taste of the unsolicited part of gender equality right into their faces.

msc545 · Answer

I hit back. Everyone has the right to self-defense.

Hangry22 · Answer

I am not gay or bi so this won't happen😅 But if a girl hit me i will hit her back

Anonymous · Answer

Under no circumstances should you hit a woman. This is why you put her in a choke hold.

InferiorElegy · Answer

Its not ok for me to hit her so I don't think it should be ok for her to hit me. I don't condone violence at all.

GingerGuy · Answer

Nobody should be hitting anyone, male or female.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Its not right. Feminists might think they are allowed to strike men but men are not allowed to hit women but thats just awful.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Lol only 2gals replied on this funny 😂. Rest all are guys and gals are not going to take responsibility now

Iron_Man · Answer

I don’t mind playfully but if it’s the real deal can’t allow that

Juxtapose · Answer

Well I hope she likes being put into a painful jocklock :) You can slap me once (man or woman) and get off for free. But after that there will be no mercy, even if you're under 5 feet tall.

LukeMerchant · Answer

If I treated her like a jerk, I deserve to be hit. If she did it because of bulling that would be completely wrong.

RawIronhide · Answer

It's offensive in the same way, makes you look immature.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I don't physically hit you then you better not hit physically me unless its play fighting.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

If a girl hits me i hit her back 2x as much. doesn't happen again. Men are capable of stopping this shit and any man who doesn't is a pussy.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

It never happened to me and it never will. One ex sure tried tho...

Wise4myage · Answer

Id be totally fine with that, but its never happened.

ayomanwya · Answer

I would say a girl hitting me will never happen but it can happen

Davidstarboy · Answer

Its kinda cute unless it hurts me... than I will use Darvin theory 🤣

chHaynes · Answer

No one likes to be hit in the negative manner but if it's in a sexual manner it all depends

Anonymous · Answer

I would never be in an abusive relationship because if a woman hit me like that I would knock her out, and it would never happen again.

Fuentes · Answer

I had an ex who tried to swing on me lol it didn't even hurt she was trippin for nothing

dhillon28 · Answer

One of the biggest turn offs for a man and a major cause of distance in the relationship

apimpnamedslickback · Answer

I don't think I can restrain myself if someone hit me, woman or man.

Anonymous · Answer

I find it hot when they hit me and yes it did happen

imfreeze95 · Answer

No one should hit anyone unless in self defense

Skankhunt · Answer

Nobody should hit each other, men or women.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm an Incel I'm looking for an opportunity for a girl to hit me so i can stab her on the spot

winterfox10 · Answer

Well obviously it's not great.

Anonymous · Answer

It's totally unacceptable.

MDollarBill · Answer

She'd only try it once.

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