How Do You Build Trust In A LDR With Someone You've Never Met IRL Or Spent IRP Time With? (Page 2)
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If you have never met the person than you can't be in a real relationship with them.
💯 agree
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not sure you can thoroughly trust anyone until after you met them for real... hoe many times do you hear how inlove they are when its all online only to get told after they met it never worked out because the other person wasn't the person they thought they was
It's no different than any other relationship --- except for the fact that 99% of them fail before they get started !!
Because you think you know them, but how can you really? Without real interaction?
Exactly. Everything's fine till you spend time IRL. That's the only way to know anything about a person, and even then, they can deceive you.
EXACTLY!!!
I would never have a relationship with someone who wasn't within a 50 mile range of me. Long distance relationships usually don't work out
Agree!!!
The way you trust your king miss brains muffins 😌
I know that i'm very rare and unique but just saying that it ain't impossible 😁
🤷🏼♀️ so many have trusted someone they didn't really know only to get burned or catfished 🤷🏼♀️
That's true miss brains muffins and i agree with you and i can say that our case is special because we come from the muffin's world and no one knows that your a sponge of muffins 🤣🤣
If miss brains lived next to me, she will become like that 🤪 in NO TIME! 😂
By the way, i'll kidnap her and bite her spongy forehead after she makes me a box of muffins,
If she said no! I'll become tool box man, no one wants to meet the man responsible of the toolbox murders ☻
If you lived next to me you could've got the boulders of snow out of my driveway the #@#@🤬😡 city left there at 4 am this morning,... Back just might go back out for real after cleaning that shit up
Calm miss brains muffins, who's making the spongy forehead angry? 😁
Why would i get the boulders of snow miss brains 😤
I must get your fresh muffins and a kiss so i be able to eat them comfortably 😋
I wanna know who's making miss brains angry! 🤔
Gotta earn the muffins
😂😂
Okaaayyyy miss brains, so your playing a naughty game eyyyyy! 😁
i'll earn my muffins when i chew your spongy forehead 😬😬
You think so, but you'd be wrong 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
I'm not wrong, i'll put you in bed miss brains, cover you well under the blanket like a baby, make sure that your warm, kiss your spongy forehead and at this point you will be sleeping deeply and i'll have enough time eating all the muffins around thr house 😁
But there's no muffins to be had 🤷🏼♀️🤣
Really 🤔
I'll bite the spongy forehead then!
Keep telling you it ain't spongy, but you ain't hearing it so 🤷🏼♀️ and they say women don't listen 🤣🤣
Idc about what THEY say, i also wonder who are these THEY 😂😂
If it ain't spongy miss brains, i'll BOIL IT and make it soft and spongy 😜
One more thing miss brains, you shouldn't be going outside a lot, cause outside it's feeezing and inside the house it's warm, you will get sick...
Don't make me chain you inside the house like samuel jackson in the movie "black snake moan" 🤣🤣
Gotta do what needs to be done 🤷🏼♀️
Where is the daughter? I'm going to punish for letting the queen of muffins doing everything!
These days, kids have lost the values and morals!
A mother at this age should rest and be happy, it's enough that she spent the majority of her life serving everyone and making them happy, she deserves some quality time herself...
She hasn't been staying here, wasn't working so well
I see, isen't scooby doo spending some time with you, well he surely must have missed his sweet grand mother 😊
They haven't been here for last two weeks
mmm, i'm sure he missed you because he can never be with a very sweet lovely amusing person like his grand mother 😊
You can only trust them up to a certain point. I know someone who I have an enormous amount of respect for, but I won't tell them my deepest secrets because I've never met them before.
But at the same time, why should I tell them anything? Because they haven't given me their phone number so they obviously don't trust me either. And I'm somewhat offended if someone can't trust me even after knowing me for so long.
what does LDR mean? what is IRP? if it don't make sense, no one will reply
Long distance relationship, And in real person
I don't believe its really possible, without a real face to face relationship, sad but true
Oh I agree 💯I have never and would never date or be in an online relationship
I have met fascinating women online, but I know that if they are 50+ miles away its a waste of energy, to try for more that friendship
Exactly
I feel so confused with your abbreviations. What do they mean?
LDR-long distance relationship
IRL-in real life
IRP-in real person, time with versus online only
You simply cannot unless you meet them. I think the online conversation/interaction should only give you an idea of whether it safe to meet the person or not.
Otherwise in terms of trust, I personally think it is self deception to think that one can build trust with some one oneself has never met in real life
💯💯 agree here!! That's my whole point! You get it! Well, once you got the abbreviations 🤣🤣
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Don't worry, I don't always know some of these abbreviations myself 🙂
Fake it till you meet. But untill then your having a WET DREAM (it fits from the other question you posted)
What other question? And I'm not in a LDR nor would I ever be
Hint read to the very end of the Pun question. You will understand then
Oh duh I get it now lolol
ldr... light dependent resistor?
😂😂😂 no lololol long distance relationship 😂
It's hard sometimes. I got scammed once because I was desperate but eventually met someone I am now married to. Emailing, paying them visits, talking regularly online/telephone helps.
i don't have any idea how to do that for sure. i have messaged with someone so i know you can
Not sure you can. Do you at least video call?
Nope! I'm not into long distance relationships with someone I've never met in person, not my thing
Yeah I wouldn’t be either.
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You can't. If I can't tie her up she's not real
😂😂😂
What if she can run away she may never stay for supper 😜
Lololol you untie her hands at least so she can eat I hope 🤣
Sometimes if she's beens good I usually have to myself though
Okay 🤷🏼♀️
Sexting and nudes.
I would disagree with that...
Open the sexual part of the relationship?
Sexual relationship? How can you have a real sexual relationship? Some people cheat when they have someone they live with and feel they ain't getting enough sex.. How long is it going to be enough to just get nudes or sexting or Masturbation before someone gets the real thing from someone closer in distance to them? And how would you know if they did? I know someone that had a long distance online girlfriend but was having sex with two other females IRL and beer she never knew
*bet not beer
Just both of you can have sex with people who have really similar genitals to your LDR partner and can imagine you’re having sex with each other?
I don't do ldr and if you're having sex with other people, why even be in A LDR? me personally, the person I would be having sex with and the person I'm in a relationship with would be one and the same
Maybe because the person you’re in a LDR with is special, and you want to ultimately have a real life relationship with them when circumstances change.
If they're so special, why would you be having sex with someone else then, or be okay with them doing so? That don't sound so special to me. Cuz if someone really loves you, they wouldn't want anyone but you
You are so right. I’m just a horny moron.
😂😂😂 I didn't say that now lolol
"Just both of you can have sex with people who have really similar genitals to your LDR partner and can imagine you’re having sex with each other?" LOL! @psychoticamimallover I swear, you're one of the funniest people on here. I love your comments.
I all seriousness, though, I don't believe that that's proper and I wouldn't do something like that.
... However, if she wants to buy a dildo that's the size of my dick, then, by all means... I don't have a problem with that.
I mean @psychoticanimallover. Lol
Also, I don't think you're a moron at all!