My boyfriend slept with someone else but he said I told him to, should I be upset? (Page 4)

[Wise4myage]

Cheat by mistake? How the fuck does someone do that, lol. I think you should just end this relationship, It looks lke a train wreck waiting to happen.

[humanearth]

Sure does

[ohshee]

Tell him to tske off ) his shoes snd go step in dog shit do you think he's going to go and do it ;

[Chris_here]

Lmao you asked for it, y'all should see other people tbh

[VanillaSalt]

Your both fucking idiots and deserve to die alone. Does that answer your question?

[dtweed1996]

lol dude that is cruel yet possibly true

[VanillaSalt]

I mean common she said something stupid in anger and he did it. He’s a fuckwit and she’s just stupid. What kinda man gives ultimatums? If it’s that bad leave if not suck it up and power through it’s called being a man!

There are those of us out there wanting something real and you two idiots are playing house.

[dtweed1996]

who knows maybe it is dumb love or something

[VanillaSalt]

Or it’s just dumb. This isn’t love. I don’t even believe in love but if it’s real it’s not like this.

[NathanDavis]

You should be upset with your decisions, yes, not just the consequences.

[Meldrum]

You've given him an opening to fuck other women. He took it. It says a lot about someone that will cheat on you, regardless of the circumstances leading up to his infidelity.

[Alexa703]

If you didn’t want it you should of said what you said you open Pandora’s box.

[Anonymous]

He is a man child and probably wanted to cheat along, so he took that opportunity when you said that.

dump fast

[Opinion Owner]

Also noted by his ultimatums and threatening to cheat on you constantly *

[forever-or-never]

I agree with this. Him immediatey going out and sleeping with someone shows how little interest he has in mending the relationship

[Sia_nee]

Yeah that's just a stupid excuse he's using to justify his cheating.

[jspl90]

so going on a date with someone from a datingsite is not?

[shade_19]

So dating someone when already in a relationship is not cheating?

[shade_19]

There is difference in having a friendly flirt and dating by the way
If u don't know the difference then ur reply seems valid according to ur intelligence

[Minahh]

You said it during an argument which isn't a very wise thing to say but I guess he wanted to cheat on you anyway he was just waiting for a "sign".

[legalboxers]

wonder if you told him to jump off a bridge, or commit armed robbery if the outcome would be the same

[Asker]

I think he was already thinking of doing it from a while back but he needed an excuse so he can then justify that it's not cheating (by using the ''you told me open relationship after all''), which it isn't but it sure makes you feel crappy.

[lonelyfortune]

Which open relationship works on the long term? I don't know any example.

[happyness28]

I do but what ever floats your boat

[lonelyfortune]

@happyness28 How many years may I ask?

[iFarted]

Your relationship is doomed to fail... Most of the time if one has to give an ultimatum then it's already over...

[worldscolide]

You both need to break up, neither of you are mature enough to be in a relationship.

[007kingifrit]

yea sounds like you drove him away. but it doesn't sound like a happy relationship anyways so its time to end it. good time to end it too

[Anonymous]

You both cheated from my POV. So now just make it an open relationship and you both will be happy

[AFellowWeeb]

If you're stupid and told him that, its your fault, you dip shit, why cimplain now? Woman up

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's your fault. Why even encourage him to that? Smh

[Neal_Anblome]

This sounds like it was entirely your choice. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

[Jamie05rhs]

Play stupid games; win stupid prizes.