What does a good man or woman mean to you?

[SenseiSeptred]

Is it the deeds that they consistently do, the sex that they can provide, how caring they are, how attractive their body is? Describe it as best as you can no matter who you are even if you are quite shy and introverted because you need to be heard somehow and in some way.

[MrWolf]

People have it so wrong & misleading with what's good or bad this days. That it's out of proportion.

Most will lie trough their teeth that they are looking for someone good yet they will lay with the first bad person they meet.

My view on this is that: I've used to be good when i was 10years old.

This days I'm that monster people used to scare their children at night which is hidding in the closet or under the bed.

What i mean is the path I've chosen and the things I've done in my life doesn't make me good guy even though I'm being called that each day by other people yet meet me on the battlefield and you'd freeze and die from fear.

Thanks to live in the military i have scars so deep i have to acknowledge I'm not a good man. And being called that is just annoying me and makes me go far away from that person.

There aren't good or bad people their is just the people we can acknowledge and the expectations we can agree on in a relationship with each other.

It's the traits of that person we are ready to accept. And we can close our eyes for some of their doings.

[exitseven]

They make my life better in many ways. They provide me with the opportunity to be part of something greater than myself.

[SenseiSeptred]

Well said.

[exitseven]

thaks for the MHO

[HOAAH]

Someone who is honest and kind. They love me and want me to be happy. They spend quality time with me and enjoy it. They are hard working. They have morals or a sense of right and wrong.

[SenseiSeptred]

In other words, someone like me even though you are older than me and don't know me

[Rashnaa]

Emotionally intilegent, respectful, good sense of humor. Decent look and not being 'a mammas boy' is highly appritiated. Lol

[SenseiSeptred]

What if they have guileful qualities?

[Rashnaa]

thanks for the mho

[AzzaBlue]

A good woman to me is basically a grown arse adult rather than a child that expects men to run their lives for them. A good woman is proactive and goes after wants she wants rather than sit of her arse and wait for opportunities to fall in her lap. A good woman has principles and doesn't try to absolve herself of responsibility. A good woman has integrity and honors her commitments/ promises. A good woman is kind, loyal and will not cheat or bail when things gest tough or a better 'offer' comes along.

[SenseiSeptred]

I agree wholeheartedly.

[doopayo]

A good man is a man that keeps quiet and a good women is literally any women

[SenseiSeptred]

Not true my dear, a good man can also be a man that completely forges his own existence within himself and his surroundings, and there are plenty of horrible women in the world or in history, heck when you get a chance, look up Elizabeth Bathory who may be the true inspiration for Bram Stoker's Dracula rather than Vlad the Impaler.

[doopayo]

In my opinion

[SenseiSeptred]

There is no I, or my, only we.

[doopayo]

This is my opinion. I’m not attracted to heterosexual cisgender men

[SenseiSeptred]

A little too involved in Americanism being gleaned about from your messages you are.

[doopayo]

What does that have to do with anything

[SenseiSeptred]

You just have not met enough negative women in the past for some reason, but you will someday soon.

[doopayo]

Of course negative women exist, I’m just saying I’m not attracted to men that are cisgender and heterosexual since the question was about men

[SenseiSeptred]

Read the post again more carefully, and then respond back to me.

[doopayo]

it was about men and women, nvm. But I still am just not attracted to men

[SenseiSeptred]

Do you at least plan on having at least one biological child to keep your family line going that stems from you even with what you mentioned? I ask because to not at least do what I mentioned could be considered a lesser form of genocide across all of existence.

[doopayo]

I don’t like younger kids so I’m most likely not going to have a kid. I might adopt an older kid once I’m older and have the necessary resources to be able to raise a child comfortably.

And my personal gender preference isn’t genocide, what are you even talking about

[SenseiSeptred]

It is not the gender preference that is the genocide aspect, it is the not having biological children someday that causes the technical genocide in a family situation from family members that don't have at least one genealogical blood child. That is a well-taught aspect in families that are descended from royalty with or without inbreeding and is one of the more wholesome teachings that happens even with the other ups and downs.

[doopayo]

I’m pretty sure me not wanting to have children isn’t genocide? It doesn’t sound like you know what that term even means

[SenseiSeptred]

Well, it prevents future generations that can come from a particular family unit, especially if the child is the only child from their parents.

[Unit1]

For starters - a woman, that won't dump or ghost me even when a rich man comes along in his Rolls Royce and hits on her 😑😒🙄

[SenseiSeptred]

That is always good.

[Tranquility_Lady]

A person who is loyal and kind does not try to hurt you

[SenseiSeptred]

But what about the being challenging to women that seems to turn them on that I have seen in the past?

[Anonymous]

A good Man doesn't mean that much to me because it seems like that's not what Women like, But a Good Women means a Women who's nice Polite and Caring as well as Beautiful.

[SenseiSeptred]

Depending on what country someone is from makes a difference too.

[anylolone]

As mark sandman said, hard to find...

"She was a helluva woman fr a helluva town, she took me a long way, it was a long way down..."

[Anonymous]

One who doesn’t try to put his dick inside anything that breathes while dating me, like my ex did

[SenseiSeptred]

Were you a virgin before meeting him because that could have made a difference in his behaviour towards you during that time that he could have easily been more faithful to have you as a prize at the end?

[Nahid1707]

The way she carries herself as a person