I am under the impression that because I was so open minded and interested in dating men of whatever race so long as they were mentally, physically and emotionally in tune with me. That the few friendships I had was basically based upon providing me as a friend for a single man.
I only allowed this to happen with one guy after I saw a patterned behaviour and I had to ask myself what this friend may have gotten out of the situation when she was financially not stable and not appearing to pay for things when we were once in holiday.
In another situation I seemed to have befriended someone who was put herself out there. And I saw a different side to her when she was allowing a guy to pleasure her on a sofa when we were out clubbing. I immediately left out of sheer disgust.
I don't know what was wrong with her and it was the last time I stayed over at her house especially when since she was more interested in ditching me to hook up with this guy.
I don't know maybe I'm just too naive for all this life crap. But it seems that I'm always getting taken in by these exploiters.
I only allowed this to happen with one guy after I saw a patterned behaviour and I had to ask myself what this friend may have gotten out of the situation when she was financially not stable and not appearing to pay for things when we were once in holiday.
In another situation I seemed to have befriended someone who was put herself out there. And I saw a different side to her when she was allowing a guy to pleasure her on a sofa when we were out clubbing. I immediately left out of sheer disgust.
I don't know what was wrong with her and it was the last time I stayed over at her house especially when since she was more interested in ditching me to hook up with this guy.
I don't know maybe I'm just too naive for all this life crap. But it seems that I'm always getting taken in by these exploiters.
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No, I've never been a prostitute or a pimp. That's a felony here.
I'm not a prostitute. And I've never claimed to be. But it seems that if you're a woman of colour that dates outside the box then, that's what people think?
Have been exploited.
Sorry to hear. Its not a pleasant situation to be in...
No it's not. Thanks for acknowledgement, empathy, and validation.
You feel exploited too, so you know what it's like.
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That's OK Peter, I hope you are OK.
I am alright. It's been a while. It still stings, occasionally. I hope you are OK.
I just don't keep company with people like that anymore, it always starts with their curiosity as to where I live, how I manage to financially balance my life. And after a short while they start to put 2+2 together and come up with 5. Especially since back then I used to be out every weekend and many nights a week meeting different types of people through doing different things. Which also lead me to dating different types of men. It was never my intentions to have as many encounters as I did but even then I wasn't sleeping around. I actually had boyfriends. Ugh! I think in general people are just hateful and jealous because of that they seek to humiliate someone because well why not!
All the best!
All the best!
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