Having a lot in common with a partner is a good thing considering you both have more to talk about and experience together and more
Than likely you won’t get bored of each other and you aren’t faking it to please them , it’s when , opposites attract and people
Fake liking what the other likes to catch their interest, those relationships don’t usually last so long , because one person is just accepting the other person because it’s new and exciting , and they change themselves and fake it to please that person , when in reality they are living a lie , eventually the person that changed to accept their partners likes and interests will miss the things they really enjoy and have resentment towards their partner , Why most people shouldn’t get into relationships without looking at the big picture , Why it’s best to find someone that has a lot of common with you and not just pretending to like the things you like to get you in bed. or get
You to like Them it happens a lot. so You’re better off just being who you are when meeting someone new and being honest to them instead of pretending you like what they like to catch their interest.
Most important things, perhaps, and our interests overlapped a bit. I was a beer and pizza guy when I started. She was more like wine and foie gras. I'm a STEM type. She was a writer. I liked skateboarding on vert ramps and EDM. She loved ballet and opera and classical music.
But we had much more in common in the most primal sort of things, like sexual compatibility, and I liked the way she talked, and she liked the way I talked. My wife is the most compatible I ever met in communication, although maybe the most opposite to me in terms of interests.
And later I started to like her stuff, and she liked mine. I grew a taste for escargot and champagne and she grew a taste for cheap beer and Domino's pizza.
Nah me and my hubby are complete opposites. It's a good thing though since we both love learning about new things so we constantly teach each other new things. Also Its great for our kids since they won't grow up being forced into doing certain activities just cause their parents are super into them.
no because i love so much her thats why i love everything her love. for example he so like watch movie but i dont like watch movie as much as he. but i like watch movie with her because he make everything beautiful. with her being make beautiful everything is beautiful
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I voted A. Absolutely. We have a lot of common interests but we also have some different interests.
For example, she has a job but is also a professional photographer. I'm not a photographer but love and support her pursuit 100% and even assist her with projects.
I am an amateur musician. She is not musical. But she supports and encourages me.
I love airplanes, especially WWI and WWII aircraft. She has no interest.
Our taste in movies differ somewhat, but are also similar to a great degree. The same is true with musical tastes.
Some of our common interests, aside from goals, politics and views, include art, nature, travel, good food, our home and garden.
I am actually single... with my last couple of 8 years we had mostly no common interest but a common set of values, and may be one common interest that was each other, so there I was looking some music videos of 'rianna' with her ( I call all those singers rianna, cause for me they all look the same, sing the same, have the same age, and are not my kind of music, etc... I cannot really notice difference and the only one i know the a name is rianna... ) not that a terrible experience but she was happy... She knew later she may need to stand some of my metal ( she also call all the groups nightwish, hahahaha ) . I thing is not about like the same, but being able to set a space and make company even if is not the most interesting activity ever for you, but need to be mutual. We had a good relation, she was sweet, lovely, sometimes bossy (alfa and alfa relation) and I loved that, we end for another unrelated topics, but keep a close friendship.
I am single but when in a relationship there is a lot of common interest and that's what adds to liking the person even more and at the same time if there are things that she does that I haven't I will put myself right there because I want to learn I understand why she likes What She Likes most of the time I can understand already but I like exploring and experiencing new things it just makes things more compatible more in sync with each other
When it comes to life goals and values yes. Otherwise no. My interests are stereotypical male interests, hers are stereotypical female interests. I think that shared life goals and values are much more important than shared hobbies.
No partner yet but for me, i'm probably going to look for for a couple different places we both connect on and a couple different places she can compromise on or at least be accepting of
My ex had tons of similarities with me in views, interests and we understood each other in communicating so well, we just had to give each other a look to know what we were thinking. Unfortunately it all ended.
I think we have about a 50-50% in common fully, of the 50% not fully in common that is about 35% we have similar things in common which leaves us with some time to ourselves which we like
Yes... but i lucked out. He has been my best friend simce we were 15\16
Been together now almost 7 years. He is still my best friend and now silver fox! 😛
Views, politics, goals, interests... The only thing we don't share is the fashion sense. She's a goth, and I'm most definitely not.
Currently I'm single but with the men that I have dated in the past we had always shared hobbies in common 😊
A common love of computers, and other interests. Good basis for a permanent relationship.
She's a Mary, I'm a Martha. She picks one team, I take the other. She's a southpaw, I'm normal (jk). She's morning person, I'm a night owl (I AM writing this at 2:38 in the morning).
Single by choice,
Just taking break from dating.
Our intrests aren't very similar although we do share some. But our values in life are alike.
My boyfriend and I are similar in many ways. We also have pretty similar childhoods lmao
Because , I often think of not being single forever more. I just wanted to experience single life, later in adulthood.
Don't have a partner so I either have 0 in common or inf in common depending on how the question is interpreted.
Not thar much but we do at times consider each other's interests and enjoy the bonding over it.
Yes, almost 80% of the things that we have in common with each other 💕💕✨
I'm what you call forever single, my face just isn't for loving. I'm not even sure I would have common interests with any female.
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