Marroed a hugh value man in my twenties and he is a narcissist who mentally, emotionally and physically abused me. Normals are looking pretty nice if you ask me.
You aren't getting me. The implication in your original comment to me is that normal dudes are subpar and what I am saying is that what people call high value career, high confidence, highly educated or specialized knowledge has plenty of bad apples in the bunch.
After being with a man with degrees out the wazoo, money and status a man who looks less on paper for worldly people shouldn't be just written off as second-rate partners.
I'm over 35 with three kids and I don't get low-value attention ever.
In your case. you already can not attract high value men. thats a fact being a single mom with three kids.
you can get average man if you want and thats fine. but they are not high value. what you consider high value has nothing to do with the universal definition of it.
A) You have ZERO idea of what men I attract so your statement is wring because you don't have sufficient data to even makenit with any iota of accuracy.
B) Enlighten us low value people about what hugh value is since no one seems to know it's mystical definition.
You are in your mid 30's with three kids. no high value man want that. sorry. high value men like younger with no kids. you can get average/above average dude.
High value man means good earner, good looking, strong social status.. etc
Your career dont matter to high value men who already have a lot. thats what you dont get. high value men can easily fall in love with a woman work in fast food if she is fit, feminine and beautiful.
what men like in a woman =/= what women like in a man.
you can attract all kind of men... but high value will not commit to you in your case.
Again you have no idea about me, what I attract. I turn down what yiu call hugh value men if you must know but go on. Yiu assume because I have three kids that I am manly and fat. All you've done is assume and you're pretty much wrong.
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sure. cause divorces are a big thing in the mid to late 30s. lots of singles on the market.
Anything is possible but a future alone with cats is much more likely. That is what I would bet money on.
Better question: Can a man over 35 still find a good wife?
Can ANY man find a good wife? IS there such a unicorn?
@JamesRandiDebates Touché.
There are good people of all ages who are single. It’s never too late to find love.
Yes. My uncle is single and is trying to find someone nice. He is picky but he's a good guy.
My mom told me once, the older you get the tougher it gets to date, mate, procreate.
She can still find a good husband those who have not married due to their goals or some personal reasons can be the match
My Grandmother married her second Husband (my one and only grandpa) when she was in her mid 40s. They were the happiest couple i know.
I think a good woman can find a good husband at any age, but it becomes much more difficult as she ages beyond around age 30.
Finding a husband at any time and age is difficult. Men do not want to get married.
Depends on how much she wants it vs the lifetime movie Instagram “hunk”
Yes. You don't know someone's individual life and circumstances.
I don’t like, probably? Depends on what you define as “good husband”... there’s always young men that want MILFS so...
There's a reason why it's called MILF and not MILM.
A women even over 35 still has a better chance finding a partner than a Man over 35, That's just the way it is and that's never going to change.
it will be difficult. I have a friend who told me that.
Define "good"...
high value man? very hard.
normal dude? sure.
Marroed a hugh value man in my twenties and he is a narcissist who mentally, emotionally and physically abused me. Normals are looking pretty nice if you ask me.
@Coulis Personal ancedotes aka exceptions does not invalidate the reality.
So people's actual experiences are invalid. My case is not uncommon.
Ancedotes does not invalidate many women who look for high value men.
You aren't getting me. The implication in your original comment to me is that normal dudes are subpar and what I am saying is that what people call high value career, high confidence, highly educated or specialized knowledge has plenty of bad apples in the bunch.
After being with a man with degrees out the wazoo, money and status a man who looks less on paper for worldly people shouldn't be just written off as second-rate partners.
I'm over 35 with three kids and I don't get low-value attention ever.
In your case. you already can not attract high value men. thats a fact being a single mom with three kids.
you can get average man if you want and thats fine. but they are not high value.
what you consider high value has nothing to do with the universal definition of it.
A) You have ZERO idea of what men I attract so your statement is wring because you don't have sufficient data to even makenit with any iota of accuracy.
B) Enlighten us low value people about what hugh value is since no one seems to know it's mystical definition.
You are in your mid 30's with three kids. no high value man want that. sorry.
high value men like younger with no kids. you can get average/above average dude.
High value man means good earner, good looking, strong social status.. etc
Right and how do you know I don't attract that. You have no idea of what I earn, my education or my social status but go on
Your career dont matter to high value men who already have a lot. thats what you dont get.
high value men can easily fall in love with a woman work in fast food if she is fit, feminine and beautiful.
what men like in a woman =/= what women like in a man.
you can attract all kind of men... but high value will not commit to you in your case.
Again you have no idea about me, what I attract. I turn down what yiu call hugh value men if you must know but go on. Yiu assume because I have three kids that I am manly and fat. All you've done is assume and you're pretty much wrong.
Sure darling... believe what you want.
bye bye now.
Likewise.
Maybe a 45 or 50 year old guy would be interested. Is she pretty?
I know some women who are over 35 and never married. They go crazy.
My wife thinks she did.
Like a needle in a hay stack.