Are all cheaters automatically bad people?

Question

Or they r just cheaters

kevyhanma · Accepted Answer

Do cheaters cross 5 lanes of traffic without signaling? Do cheaters bring their babies to the movies? Do cheaters pee on tissue in public restrooms? Do cheaters throw entire pizza boxes out the window on the highway? Do cheaters drive by car accidents and point and laugh? Do cheaters hit ducks, geese, raccoons, deer, buzzards, or the neighbors dog who got out for the fun of it with their car? Do cheaters sell weed to middle schoolers and pregnant people? Do cheaters wait outside or stores to ambush and intimidate you to donate to their stupid cause? Do cheaters shit in the middle of the trail at the park so every jogger , dog walker and power walking grandmas in town has to see n smell it? Or did they just put the grossest part of their body into another persons even grosser part without telling you?

Aethereal · Accepted Answer

It depends on what actions/traits qualify as "bad" to you. It is completely possible that cheating doesn't make one a bad person. But that would require you to accept that lying to, betraying, disrespecting, humiliating, hurting, and/or toying with another human being are good, or acceptable actions to take in life.

I personally define such actions as "bad". Thus I believe that cheating make one a bad person, because those bad actions are all done by the cheater to their partner. And usually for very shallow reasons.

Crazyb33 · Accepted Answer

All cheaters are different the cheaters that just cheat for no reason all the time are bad the cheaters that cheat cause of being cheated on are bad but they have a good reason even though 2 wrongs don’t make it right maybe that’s how they get over being cheated on I personally have been in a situation and from experience no matter what cheating is not ok and it doesn’t help cheating even though u were cheated on it just makes it worse

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

It's not just the "cheating" itself... It's the broken promises when commit the cheating, the lies told for both the cheating to occur and to cover up the cheating... It's at the least the actions of a selfish person that's putting how they feel in that moment over the damage and hurt they cause to others avid their heart or feelings... So do you think selfish people are bad?

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Nelson Mendela was a cheater and they say that Martin Luther King Jr. was too. Hitler did not cheat on his wife and neither did the North Korean dictator.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

How do you define "bad people?"

Interstate · Answer

When Jesse Anderson killed his girlfriend/wife outside the (former) Milwaukee, Wisconsin Northridge Mall TGI Friday restaurant back in 1992, did that make him a killer because it was only one person? YES.

However, in the discussion of cheating, this doesn't necessarily stand true. The severity of any incident is determined by how much the relationship or marriage is impacted. Everybody has their own idea about what is bad and what isn't. Is it just the situation that is bad, the person or both? As much as it is true that a wrong can't be made right, since nothing we can say or do can reverse our actions, it is determined by how easily things can be overlooked and put behind you both. Can this person be trusted again?

Thomasksksk · Answer

I feel no. Bad people is first of all subjective the term doesn't apply same for everyone. But see, cheating is first of all a hormonal reaction unless it's through love (if it's love then it's fucked up). And mostly cheating is an implusive decisions. So I don't think cheaters are bad people. Like just because they cheated doesn't mean they're bad, if there are other signs then yes you can say they're bad. Solely on the fact that they cheated? I'd probably say no, you can say they're "bad people". At the end, it's a choice, no one can do anything about that. It's their choice.

BlackFire1 · Answer

Yes they are bad people. Cheating exhibits negative character traits even outside of a relationship let alone in one. It shows both a lack of commitment and dedication to their current partner and, in the event that their relationship was in hot water anyway, the inability to resolve the issue through conversation or other means. In my experience there's always a better way to end or even save a relationship besides cheating. Couple this with the fact that it can also potentially hurt a third party who isn't involved in your relationship and it's just terrible.

CentralPerk77 · Answer

Humans are biologically not a monogamous species. There are only a dozen or so known species that are. This said it is, from a biological perspective, “normal” to cheat. They aren’t bad people - it’s just everything from religion to Disney princess movies that tells us you should be looking for “the one”. The reality is, you can love more than one person, you likely are attracted to more than one person and it’s kinda strange that anyone would sit around and ignore the realities.

Browneye57 · Answer

Only if YOU think they are.
So here's the thing... people cheat for all kinds of reasons, but the main one and most common one, is they think or feel they're missing something in their primary relationship. So while you cannot BLAME the victim of cheating, there is nearly always culpability for failures in that relationship.
And cheating is pretty well split 50-50 by gender.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

No.

They can be greedy, obsessive, scared or lonely even, but that alone doesn't make them bad people, They just haven't found someone they are happy with, but because of the traits I just mentioned they are too scared to do the right thing and end things with their current partner first.

hahahmm · Answer

I wouldn't think of it as good/bad people but some people do things that are bad for YOU. And they would happily keep doing it for 50+ years if you let them. You have to have the courage to break the cycle. If you act like a doormat you'll be treated like one. Some people have a good reason to cheat but it's never a good thing to cheat. Better to leave the relationship.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yes they are with a real life caveat.

a woman I know spent 10 years in an abusive relationship, physical and mental.

She met someone that cared for her and helped her get the courage to escape.

they are both happily married now, as the cheating was used as part of her divorce.

for me trust is a major thing and cheating for me is wrong at some many levels.

however I do believe they can be valid exceptions

NathanDavis · Answer

we are all bad people, in part only...

cheaters are just more of that, worse in that sense or lack loyalty and consideration for their partners, but that would be different from all the good and great they could do

being bad and doing bad are different things

but also, yes... some are just true pieces of waste

DiegoO · Answer

No one is that good. Are cheaters bad people? Cheating itself is wrong, but it doesn't make you a bad person if it's something you don't enjoy. If you do enjoy, without remorse, that's a psychopatic trait, therefore you can't be good if you enjoy the process of emotionally harming someone.

crazy8000 · Answer

Bad is relative.

Yeah.
Cheating people.
It could be many different reasons why someone cheat.
Many times is it attitude. mostly actually.

Listen little to what the cheater say to begin with.
It can give a lot of clues why.
Sometimes is the cheater brutal honest and understand what is going on and why even if we don't want to believe or listen.
Other thing's is how the relationship really is in the cheaters perspective.

yourlocalracoon · Answer

im going to say yes. getting cheated on destroys your self confidence and trust. if you do that to somebody then it is obvious that you dont care about that persons feelings.

MTC29 · Answer

Think about the often used term "Lie, cheat, and steal." Those three words were grouped together because a person doing even one, would be inclined to do all three.

Those are not people that I would associate with.

Shengning · Answer

It's hard to say, it's a part of nature, human born with this gene, never change through thousands year. It's like we human eat animals destroy lands whenever we wanted, are we bad?

There is a type of cheating which only cheat for body pleasure, but heart always belong to the loved one, is that a bit better than normal cheat?

Dragonpurple · Answer

I do not judge someone based on a single action.

I will say this though, once a cheater... always a cheater. Seems it gets easier for them to cheat after the first time and not think it is a big deal, going into future relationships.

slatyb · Answer

Like everything else, it's complicated. Sometimes people are married with children and their partner withdraws and leaves them alone. Their choices are to divorce, live alone, or remain married but find another partner.

NyceGuyFinishingLast · Answer

I don't think that all cheaters are bad people, just some make stupidly bad decisions. For those that do it more than once or do it after they have been caught and forgiven. Those are bad people.

Sarahr123 · Answer

Cheaters are selfish and don’t care about backstabbing the person who trusts and loves them so yeah that does make them bad people because selfish people are bad people.

The_Maphio · Answer

You get cheated on, then come back to reply to your own question. They might not be bad people, per se, but you as the cheated one can't think to well of them.

SpazzAsh · Answer

Horrible people. I wouldn't be friends with one and all of their opinions on things can be discarded and thrown aside.

Laciandmaci · Answer

yeah they are bad, I do not approve of cheating and if my man would ever cheat on me he is gone, I would never and I mean never take him back! I would never cheat for any circumstance!

Adam1978 · Answer

They are certainly worse then if they weren't a cheaters.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Not necessarily. Mistakes and bad decisions happen as people are prone to being stupid and making the wrong decisions sometimes.

Moreover, repeated offenders of cheating are bad people because it shows they have no remorse for what they done.

genericname85 · Answer

it automatically makes them "a bad person" as they are doing that. we all make mistakes and do stupid shit. our entire life can't be determined by one singular event. if you're an overall good or bad person stands to be measured by all your deeds.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Bad people no shitty people yes. You’ve fucked someone over and they should be able to pay you back...

Nobodycares · Answer

No, because lust is god. LUST IS GOD. Slaanesh, lord of lust guides us all. Slaanesh be with you. Virtue in the orgasm. The new experience. The desire for PERFECTION. Total satiation.

IAMNathanael · Answer

Not necessarily, that's just a bad thing they did. They're probably just as capable to do anything good.

Whitneythegemini · Answer

They aren’t automatically bad people , but they definitely lack the trustworthy trait. Can’t be a cheater and expect people to trust you

jasco · Answer

No, their are no such thing as bad people. Just really stupid people making very stupid choices. People make choices that are bad but that doesn't mean they will always be bad. They can learn and grow to be better if they wanted to do so.

Azura_88 · Answer

Cheater = selfish = deceptive = fraud = malicious = BAD AND WORST.

myname604 · Answer

Most cheaters are women, would that mean most are bad people?

Kas19 · Answer

Depends. Morals are subjective. I think people that cheat are impulsive and deceiving. I prefer being around loyal and genuine people.

MrTruth · Answer

They are simply bad because they are selfish, inresponsible and weak for their desires. All these features define a toxic and a bad person, indeed.

Celtero · Answer

Yep, it's very easy to just breakup instead of cheating on someone.

Anonymous · Answer

This is a naive questions, 9/10 people have cheated on someone at some point. 18-25 year olds partying, drinking, living the life. Don’t be silly. It happens a lot.

Ninjazzed · Answer

They’re dishonest, disingenuous, and non virtuous. Pretty sure this renders them as bad people by default.

libsaretards · Answer

They may generally be ok people, but they have a severe lack of integrity and are not mature enough for a relationship.

Leavesbound · Answer

A lot of people consider me a bad person and I've never cheated so...

Miristheiss · Answer

Well, they are automatically liars... they are immensely selfish.

lakotabebebe · Answer

They are people who have made a terrible choice. Not inherently bad since they can choose to stop.

Jazquee · Answer

Na... cheaters aren't people!! U need a soul to be human

RingOfFire · Answer

Depends on how you define bad people. One definition might include people who cheat. If it includes that then cheaters are bad people by definition.

Philyouup · Answer

depends on what you call bad. what were the conditions of the relationship? cheating wrong period, but circumstances can vary wildly

hearvoices · Answer

Cheaters are scumbags. It says a lot of their character or lack thereof. I wouldn't trust them with a cup of coffee.

Liber8CopWatch · Answer

Yep, they get no sympathy from me, cheating, no matter the reason, is wrong, if you cannot be faithful to the person you are with you need to end it before beginning a relationship with another person

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

They're all bad for relationships, but I don't believe all of them to be bad people deep down.

Dargil · Answer

Yes, they are. They betray their lovers in the darkest way.

rievious · Answer

They are bad people to be in a relationship with. They deserve only friends but never a partner. Ultimate punishment. THE FRIEND ZONE FOREVER

worldscolide · Answer

They are bad in my opinion.. They aren't capable of loving anyone but them selves.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, they are. If you cheat, you're automatically scum.

Massageman · Answer

Are all people who do NOT automatically "GOOD" people?

otaku_owl_91 · Answer

Yes. If you dislike a situation, walk away. To cheat simply means that you're selfish. Even if your loved one cheats on you, just leave.

WhiteWolf69 · Answer

No cheaters aren't bad people. They cheat because they are looking for something they dont have or aren't getting in their relationship

7771999 · Answer

Unless they're in an abusive relationship, yes. Just break up, you dingos

Mangospacho · Answer

They’re not necessarily bad people but it is not good to cheat…unless it’s for a good reason.

StunningANDbrave · Answer

Yes, you are someone with no integrity and untrustworthy.

JustMe62 · Answer

What they do as a cheater if bad and wrong and can have serious consequences. They are at least part bad.

Anonymous · Answer

I think a lot of cheaters tend to be in a bad state mentally

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