Lied about having a baby mama?

[Diya1014]

It’s it common to lie about having a baby mama? My boyfriend lied and said a woman was his baby mama when she wasn’t. I asked her and she said she never had a baby with him. It was true!!! Did he lie and say it was his baby mama so he can have sex with both of us at once... you know to make it look like he can’t escape and has no choice but to meet up with her. I think he’s attached to her because that’s who he and when he first got out of prison. Is it a common thing for men that got out of prison to cheat constantly with exes and a baby mamas? The two men that I’ve ever had went behind my back with exes and baby’s mamas. They both been to prison. (I don’t purposely choose prison men.) Why lie and say she’s your baby’s mam if she doesn’t have kids for you? Weird.

[Ghostykill3r]

He sounds like an idiot, or that he's trying to cheat I don't know

[Anonymous]

Sure if you are dating trash men, But you choose that so you had it coming.

[Diya1014]

How am I supposed to know they are trash if they completely lie about who they are and don’t reveal the real them until it’s too late and I’ve already wasted my time? Am I supposed to use a crystal ball or something?

[Diya1014]

Why is all the accountability only put on me? They always get away with murder. If they do wrong I’m left to take all the blame. He lied and cheated and hid it but it’s my fault. I asked his intentions and if he had anything going on he said no. Then over a year later when I broke up with him he says the truth. they wait until they get what they want then be real. Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Because you are the one that goes after these trash men. I know and see plenty of good men that cannot get a date because women prefer trash. You have no one but yourself to blame.

[Diya1014]

That’s my point. They advertise themselves as good men then after they get what they want they reveal who they really are. That’s called coercion. Obviously if he showed he was an asshole when I met him I wouldn’t have bothered with a relationship. You’re acting like I saw this and chose to ignore it. I asked his intentions and if he had anything going on he said no. You’re just defending him. No one ever admits a man is wrong ALL the blame is put on women. No one ever says you know what he shouldn’t have lied about having a kid with someone when he didn’t. You act like “good men” don’t cheat. What I’m saying is he said made himself out to be something he’s not just to use me. Anyone can do that. How am I supposed to know the “good man” isn’t going to change like why happened to me already?

[Diya1014]

I didn’t go after him. He stepped to me and told me he wanted me. He shot his shot. Not me.

[Diya1014]

Anyone can betray you or portray themselves as something they are not. How am I supposed to get a crystal ball to know?

[Opinion Owner]

You just can't tell the difference, it has nothing to do with fucking advertising. You fuckers always go for the guy with the biggest biceps and expect him to be good. Fuck you

[Diya1014]

You don’t have to curse at me. He doesn’t have biceps.

[Yourfriend2021]

You're going after the wrong kind of men.

[Diya1014]

We had the talk in the beginning. I asked his intentions and if he had anything relationships going on he said no then this... he basically lied to get to use me then once we got done he told the truth. That’s so cruel.

[Yourfriend2021]

Yes that's not right and cruel but men that go to prison don't seem to be nice guys that you should be going out with.

[Diya1014]

Yeah. Thanks.