An ulterior motive because I was lied to and didn't consent to an affair? Reevaluate your stupid comment. You would feel the same way in the situation.
No? I just feel like he took advantage of me and his wife was shamefully deceived into believing he was off hanging out with friends or running errands in his leisure time. Obviously nobody would need an ulterior motive to know that this is morally wrong and want to tell their wife.
Jesus, you are sorely confused and misled. I think the entire point of you rambling on their question in the first place was to parrot a political statement. So you’d be completely okay with the cheater’s fling staying silent about it? What if it was your wife?
Don’t even bother commenting further, you’re only announcing your ignorance.
I don’t, we pretty much don’t talk anymore because of his schedule.. so I figured it was over anyway.. then I found out about his wife.. so now I feel obligated to tell her.
He’s only in the marriage because he doesn’t want to deal with divorce court.. he’s afraid of being fucked over and losing custody of his kids I assume.. but it’s wrong and his wife deserves to know the one she’s married to is a frequent cheater.
He’s actually a sweet guy and pretty much sacrifices everything for his wife and kids but he just got tired of it. The first time we had sex, he couldn’t really stay erect and he blamed it on his nerves so I found that very suspicious.
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Probably. But, it might also be because YOU have an ulterior motive
An ulterior motive because I was lied to and didn't consent to an affair? Reevaluate your stupid comment. You would feel the same way in the situation.
like i said, i guarantee you, that you have an ulterior motive
No? I just feel like he took advantage of me and his wife was shamefully deceived into believing he was off hanging out with friends or running errands in his leisure time. Obviously nobody would need an ulterior motive to know that this is morally wrong and want to tell their wife.
No, you have an ulterior motive. I GUARANTEE IT
You're making bold, unhinged assumptions here but whatever.. I'm clearly talking to someone who would conscientiously make the wrong decision.
You sound like a trump supporter. and you probably are
You are a ninkampoof, and a true, idiot
Trump? Wtf?
Jesus, you are sorely confused and misled. I think the entire point of you rambling on their question in the first place was to parrot a political statement. So you’d be completely okay with the cheater’s fling staying silent about it? What if it was your wife?
Don’t even bother commenting further, you’re only announcing your ignorance.
Ok, parrot
Tell her. It's the right thing to do.
why do you still have a relationship?
I don’t, we pretty much don’t talk anymore because of his schedule.. so I figured it was over anyway.. then I found out about his wife.. so now I feel obligated to tell her.
but you said "it will probably ruin my relationship with him"
Yes, as we stopped talking for reasons being that we’re unable to see each other.. but telling his wife matters more to me.
I think you should tell her. She deserves to know
Yes she has the right
Tell her anonymously.
I'd tell her and give her proof
you know have a responsibility to so.
I'd say no
Explain.
It's not right what he done or doing. but you could break up a marriage and hurt kids with that information
He’s only in the marriage because he doesn’t want to deal with divorce court.. he’s afraid of being fucked over and losing custody of his kids I assume.. but it’s wrong and his wife deserves to know the one she’s married to is a frequent cheater.
The truth hurts sometimes.. but wouldn’t you want to know if your partner was cheating on you?
Different when kids involved. For all you know they could be together for them but yes he not nice fella
He’s actually a sweet guy and pretty much sacrifices everything for his wife and kids but he just got tired of it. The first time we had sex, he couldn’t really stay erect and he blamed it on his nerves so I found that very suspicious.
Stay out of this. You aren't the police.
Um, I never implied that I was? And stay out of it?
Pretty sure he deliberately sucked me into it. Get a grip.
There is absolutely no advantage to you in doing this and there is some risk. Don't do it - he might come after you later.
He can’t come after me lol he knows nothing about me.
And wrong, at least I will have the piece of mind knowing I brought it to light.
Do what you want but be careful of revenge.