Is it true that I’m a simp if I cook breakfast every morning for my girlfriend? What if I massage her feet often before bed as well?

[Anonymous]

I cook her breakfast M-F because I wake up earlier than her to go into work. I also would be cooking for myself anyways so might as well cook her for too. She’s still asleep by the time I leave but I leave her a plate in the microwave for when she wakes up.
I also often massage her feet as she falls asleep often. I basically spoil her a lot. My whole family makes fun of me sometimes but her family loves me because I treat her like a princess.

SIMP

You aren’t a simp

[Aurora1010]

It doesn't matter, you shouldn't care what other people think or label it as long as you want and like to do it, every couple can express their love to eachother in their own way. And no, I don't consider it as a simp either.

[Subarugirl]

Since when does caring for your partner make you a simp?

[Anonymous]

Well, yes, you are a SIMP (by the internet's definition) but hear me out. There is nothing wrong with being a SIMP. Being a SIMP simply means you don't disrespect or are hateful towards women. Being a SIMP means you treat women adequately unlike those, who brand you as a SIMP.
In short - you are being a normal boyfriend and you make the girl happy. Keep on SIMPing and being hated by the GAG blues, who either never touched a girl or got cheated on and didn't get over it 😁

[PrettyPriya]

To me you are just showing her attention and care as a partner should. Nothing wrong with being nice and doing things for your SO. Always a give and take in a relationship.

[SnakeBoop]

Meh, showing you care for your partner will be determined as a simp to some. So long as she also does stuff for you, I see no issue.

[Woke51]

Simping is fine as long as you are aware that you are simping and doing it because you want to, not because you expect something in return.

[Nomina]

For me, it's way too much attention. I'd ask that he shows he cares in another way.

[Browneye57]

When she gets bored and steps out on you then you'll wonder what you were thinking all that time.

[ChiPaPa]

How can you be a simp if you're in a relationship?

[TheFlak38]

yes you are.

[Aphrodite801]

So nice