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How would you feel if your fiancé spends a night at her ex’s house? (Page 3)
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So she gets jealous if she sees you talk to another woman but it's chill for her to spend the night at her ex's place? Nah. Time to run.
Hehehhe. Yeah she would be in deeeep 💩 with me.
Unless you guys live rural or some other reason, you are getting played.
If it was me I would leave her. I don't tolerate contact with any ex and I also have no contact at all with any ex.
I think if a girl is going to her ex’s house then she is seriously thinking about getting back together with her ex. I don’t want to think she would be like that but it’s always a possibility
I don't think it's totally normal if your fiancé spends the night at her ex's place...
Break up immediately, Try to sue them for emotional damages, and file criminal charges for harassment should they ever talk to me again.
My ex did to me what is being done to you. A week later I Magically ended up with gonorrhoea and trichomoniasis. Dump their sorry ass like the piece of shit they are
How come she did not call you what she forgot to pay the motherfuker cell phone bill
Dump her she seems way to suspicious, why do she needs to go over to an ex house unless it something she probably forgotten over there
She cheated. There’s no excuse to sleep at an ex’s house dude. None at all.
I would sit her down and have a long talk with her.
There's really nothing to talk about. He's just in the early stages of denial. Let the grief begin.
She'd just lie though. He already knows the truth, he just needs to comprehend it for himself.
That was very inconsiderate of her. The least she could have done was call and ask your opinion before she did that.
I would banish them to the shadow realm. Begone thot.
I personally would end this, why was she at her ex's place anyway?
There's literally only one reason a woman spends the night at her ex's house: she's fucking him in every room of that house and sucking his dick until his balls are completely empty.
She made a booty call. You should dump her ass ASAP.
He can always put his finger up there to see if there's any smell of anyting out the ordinary
So sorry to hear this... if it were me I’d go to that ex and have a talk with him... but yeah the relationship is over in my opinion. 5 years? So sad... fucking bitch. Like wtf else could have happened? She must have cheated
Tell her to tell her ex boyfriend, that she's moving in with him.
You just got cheated on man. Love is blind and sometimes painful indeed.
Not happy. That’s inconsiderate.
Do you guys live together?
Yeah we do
It's very strange behaviour that she wouldn't call you. Look - I would apprise myself of all the facts first, before making assumptions.
Think about it - if she wanted to cheat on you, why wouldn't she just see this guy on the sly? It would be a dumb thing to do to just stay overnight to fuck, because obviously you are going to ask what's going on, and she also told you where she was.
I wouldn't be surprised if it's something else. Like, what were the papers about? Were they to do with something personal, or something that could cause a fight or friction between your fiancee and her ex? If so, perhaps she had an absolutely exhausting argument with him. Maybe he wouldn't sign the papers. You don't know yet.
I remember it took me weeks to get my ex fiancé to sign the papers to cancel our joint account. It was maddening, and he was using it as a power play to prevent me from cutting ties and moving on.
The main thing to do at this stage is to communicate very calmly. Let her know her absence impacted you very negatively and you have concerns. Tell her you want to understand her side of things, and that it is extremely important that she explain exactly why she felt the need to stay over, and if it was "just because she was tired", why did she not realize this would cause you distress? Even if she didn't cheat, you guys still have a communication and respect issue here which you both need to be committed to resolving before you get married. Obviously if she cheated, you may not be getting married.
But allow the possibility that this may be a simple disjunct between how you two show respect. If she didn't cheat, and she realizes this incident hurt you and sincerely wants to work with you to resolve it, then she's a keeper. If she cheated, or even if she didn't cheat but simply has no desire to resolve this with you, you have a bigger problem on your hands. I wish you well.
No no no... not happening