I love my boyfriend and he loves me, at least I hope he does. But there are times where he'll make plans with me and won't follow through. At times he'll plan things with me and try to gaslight me by saying "I never said that" when our messages are proof of the contrary. Other times he says he fell asleep, and I understand that bit because he works nights and I've told him that if he's too tired to do anything to let me know but he never does. Sometimes, he won't even be asleep and straight out tell me he got lazy, but will only let me know after I've waited hours for him and have rearranged my day to be with him. Yesterday he fell asleep around 6am, I sent him texts checking on him, but he never replied and still has yet to even text me. I was hurt and upset that he couldn't even text me to tell me that he wasn't going to make it (again) so I sent him a last message stating that I was tired and disappointed and that it was over. He hasn't even read my text and I'm now thinking he's probably dead (Sorry about that, my mind just assumes the worst.) Was I too brash? Am I being unreasonable? Does he even love and care?
My boy friend has stood me up several times in our 3 year relationship. I've talked to him about this, but he continues to do it. What do I do?
