I had that happen. She was done with men, but I intrigued her because I didn't yell at her when she said she wasn't interested. She texted back like 5 days later but she was sick so we still couldnt go on a date, then she got covid, then I got sick right before our official date. It was like 1.5 months of texting and talking on the phone. We meet and then the next day she texts me saying she's not interested. This clingy bitch that blew my phone up for over a month isn't interested now.
@Jamie05rhs nope, here in India anyone can have a petrol pump , there is lot of paper work to be done. You need to have your own place, need to take a loan to set it all up. That kind of thing I am talking about. Not the one in the sea😂
@Jamie05rhs it's a big project ya, and plus in india if a common man wants to do something big they have to be prepared to lose half of their sanity. Things don't happen that easily. The person has to slog day and night. Gosh it's scary actually the amount of work it takes
Yeah it was, before I walked away I just felt constantly confused and anxious... not really knowing where I stand. Somethings tho, I miss him and think maybe I should've tried harder but I think that feeling is normal. At the end if the day if its meant to be you will end up together, whether you walk away or not I guess...🤷🏽♀️
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No. While you are waiting, they are out enjoying their life and fucking someone else.
@sheikalana I would never wait for them because a woman who has feelings for me but isn't ready indicates she's an utter coward.
Its a risk imagine waiting then you find it that you two not compatible 🤷🏻♂️ , or he changed his mind
I had that happen. She was done with men, but I intrigued her because I didn't yell at her when she said she wasn't interested. She texted back like 5 days later but she was sick so we still couldnt go on a date, then she got covid, then I got sick right before our official date. It was like 1.5 months of texting and talking on the phone. We meet and then the next day she texts me saying she's not interested. This clingy bitch that blew my phone up for over a month isn't interested now.
No, life is short. If they're not ready, they're likely not the one
There is literally no such thing as bad timing--only a not interesting enough opportunity.
Are you in such a hurry to get into a relationship?
Life is short. Opportunities don’t come around again. If you are offered one, you take it!
Depends on the situation, if he has feelings for me and prioritises career, I would wait.
@Pandupillu What kind of career would he have where he couldn't go on dates?
@Jamie05rhs petrol pump, building a resort if his own. Things like these you know , big things.
@Pandupillu You mean an oil rig in the sea?
@Jamie05rhs nope, here in India anyone can have a petrol pump , there is lot of paper work to be done. You need to have your own place, need to take a loan to set it all up. That kind of thing I am talking about. Not the one in the sea😂
You mean a gasoline station for people to fill their cars?
@Jamie05rhs yes yes right
Oh. Interesting. Why do you think someone in that profession would be able to go on dates?
@Jamie05rhs I know they can't, that's why I said I would wait for them to complete the project.
Why can't they?
@Jamie05rhs it's a big project ya, and plus in india if a common man wants to do something big they have to be prepared to lose half of their sanity. Things don't happen that easily. The person has to slog day and night. Gosh it's scary actually the amount of work it takes
Oh. I see.
No. Accept my advances now or fuck off. Thats how i do it.
I would try to understand why timing is not good? What is the reason?
no, i dont belive in "not the right time"
Depends on who i guess
I was in the same situation. I walked away.
In the end do you think that was a good decision? and how did that person react when you walked away?
Yeah it was, before I walked away I just felt constantly confused and anxious... not really knowing where I stand. Somethings tho, I miss him and think maybe I should've tried harder but I think that feeling is normal.
At the end if the day if its meant to be you will end up together, whether you walk away or not I guess...🤷🏽♀️
Well he didn't fight to keep me or anything so that was that lol
@Anonymous I think you made the right call.
Only if they feel the same.
not ready, move on. their loss.
Not ready = Not good
Not really
Nope. Good bye.
No...
Not sure. Im waiting